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Pop Culture Hour: Granny Chic is Trending, Ryan Gosling is a Disney Adult, and Good vs Bad Edits on Bravo

On this special monthly episode of Pop Culture Hour with Taylor Strecker, Stassi and Taylor catch up and celebrate Taylor hitting 100k on Instagram.  They talk about how "Granny Chic" is becoming a trend, as seen on Sofia Richie and Kylie Jenner, and how they've been dressing that way for years. Stassi and Taylor crown Ryan Gosling the King of Disney Adults after John Stamos explained that he loves to go there, and then they chat Kim & Kroy's divorce and good vs bad edits on Bravo, as illustrated most recently by Summer House.  They wrap up with some tour talk as they gear up to his the road again this weekend.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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01:34:56 6/7/2017

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Straight Up with Stassie. Hi, everyone. I'm Stassie Schroeder. She's the star of Bravo's Vanderpump Rules. I'm here to talk about pop culture, reality TV, celeb gossip, relationships. Stassie's new podcast is a hilarious look at the world and everyone in it. I wanna give my opinion on everything. And she's never one to hold back on any topic. Because that's what I do best, judge. This is straight up with Stassie. Welcome to Straight Up With Stassie. What the f**k was that? That was good, though. That was you know, I feel like we could karaoke. You know, I'm opposed to karaoke. I have anxiety about it. But I feel like that's something I could be okay with. I could see you doing something like that only or, like, Jean Paul. Well, yeah. Or Daddy Yankee. Daddy Yankee. That's what I was just about to say. But that's what you do on a Tuesday at 7. That's how you, you know That's how you intro this. That's not just So I'm sorry. I've loved that song since 2007. I'm I'm shocked that I don't know this about you, though. Really? Yes. Katie, when I just said when you were like, let's play a song. I'm like, alright. Let's pick whatever song that you want. And you were like, you said that one. Like, I could've picked whatever song that you want. And you were like, you said that one. I could've picked Kia, my neck, my back. See, that to me would be more on theme with who you are. Really? Yeah. Oh, but I whenever, like, when This made me even happier. But whenever having, like, a, like, a low key apartment dance party that just imprompt really happens because don't be jealous, but that happens. It happens every time. All the time, but that is, like, my go to jam. Really? Yes. Why haven't I been there for those impromptu dance parties? Because every time I'm at those impromptu dance parties, it's Disney songs that I'm not aware of because it's like, Muami. What's that what's that new one? Moana. Moana. Moana. Or poke or, like, no. I know Pocahontas. Or, like, a a a Disney movie that I've never seen before. And I'm like, dude, I'm obsessed with Disneyland. I don't know how I don't know these songs. Or it's country music. And then I'm like or it's before my birth. So then I'm like, yeah. You know, I'm gonna sit this one out. But you haven't been there for the t pain I don't know. Throw downs. You have, but you were I swear you've been there one time, but you were, like, dancing with the dog. Like, you weren't, like, well, that I mean, that that makes me think that people were twerking, and I felt insecure about the fact that I don't I don't have that ability. And so I'm, like, gonna stick with what I know best, the dogs. You know what? I know that in 2007, you were hitting the clubs, the same ones I was, and that was, like, the song of the summer. Yeah. Shout out to LeDoux. Shout out to Goa. Not no. Shout out to Aria. Shout out to Aria? Yes. That's remember when Lady Gaga was then? Privilege. Oh, I think that was before me. But that was hide. Well, LeDoux, hide. Yes. LeDoux was everyone's favorite, which I don't understand why LeDoux closed. Well, now there's been, like, a LeDoux reboot. But it's not the same. Have you been? No. I haven't. But I'm saying, like, it will never be the same as what it was. Nothing will ever if you close and you become something else, it's remodeled. Like, I'm not even I don't even know if I wanna walk in there. Like, it would Well, I just feel like I'd go in there. I'd be like, you know, it's like There's no fountain. Later. I'm, like, old now. I can't last a whole night in heels. Oh my god. This is really depressing. God. Yeah. Those were the days I remember when do you did this ever I'm sure it did. I'd show up to Ladue, and they were filming The Hills, like, up like, in, like, the second store story part of it. Yeah. And I would see Britney Spears walk in, and I'm like, Britt, if in my brain. I didn't actually, like, go up and meet her or anything. But I'd be like, if you just let me style you, you could so not be the girl with the umbrella shaving her head. Like, just let me I'm from Louisiana. I feel like I used to be like, if I met her, I know she'd love me because we're both from Louisiana and I could help her. You could've saved her from herself. I really could have. Woulda, coulda, shoulda. Ladue was the best. It was. Especially, I I probably liked it better on, like, the Monday nights because it was, like, the last drop bands, a little bit. There's a bit of a little scenes direction. I actually do remember those nights. Yeah. Yes. And they'd have a lot like, they would have the whole same DJ thing, like, up front by the fountain, and then in the back, they would have No. I do remember a mundane and I'll I I feel like this is hard. If I looked back on my Facebook on my private albums, I would see something like that because it's ringing a bell in my head. Like, you were never a Moscow girl. I don't know what that is. Exactly. What does that mean? It was total, like okay. Now now the term for it would be, like, hipster, but back then, it was scene, scene ster. It's called the scene. Wait. So a hipster now Is kind of what to be called a scene ster? Yes. I mean, that I feel like that kind of alternative sort of, I don't know what the word is. Would be. Yeah. It was called scenesters. And I was kinda, like, the the alternative sort of, like, little group. You guys like music and rock and roll and, like It was kinda still You like black nail polish? Yeah. You know? I mean, I liked black nail polish. I never had because it looked ladylike. I never had a lip piercing or an asymmetrical haircut, so I didn't fully commit to that slim look. But the music, like, you know, if you listen to, like, My Chem My Chemical Romance? Yeah. I'm trying to think of a song right now. Oh my god. Wait. Hold on. What's the song when they they're in war and he's, like Wait. What is it? What is what song am I talking about? Black parade? I think. Enjoy the black parade. Wait. I know a lot of My Chemical Romance. You forget that I tried to be half goth. Did you like The Killers? Oh, I loved The Killers, but that to me was that sounded like the eighties. Well, I mean, there was, like, the the sort of there's the post punk and then there was the pop punk. Yeah. I'm a little more pop punk. Yeah. I mean, I'm not really, like, punk at all. But, like, to me, if you listen to The Killers right now, it sounds like Britney Spears, and I love it. Well, that's why it was called pop. Yeah. Punk. It was a mainstream That makes sense. Sort of punk genre. Okay. So then what is what is what you just asked if I was? You said, so you weren't a whatever girl? Hipster. No. You said girl. And then you go you said a scenester? And then you went you said something else. You go, you weren't a A Moscow girl. Because there was a Moscow girl. There was a club, in Hollywood called Moscow, and they would have bands of that post punk, pop punk, alternative rock genre would perform. Where was Moscow? It was at Bordners, and I can't remember exactly. It was in Hollywood. It was somewhere between Selma and Hollywood, and it was remember, it was right by Beauty Bar and Velvet Margarita. Somewhere like, in that kind of vicinity. So it was, like, on or right off of Hollywood or something like that? Yeah. It was right on there. Wow. No. I never knew what Moscow was. So no. I think no. I would it would have been was it a place that if I walked in, they would have been like, what the f**k are you doing? Or they wouldn't have let me in. No. No. But you just don't enjoy live bands type you know, those kind of venues where it's strictly just like live music and you just wanna, like, sit and listen. No. No. Listen. You did enjoy Justin Bieber, though. Yes. Because but I would've enjoyed Justin Bieber even more if it was more of a visual show. This is the thing. I don't like when people say, like, you don't like music. I'm like, of course I like music. Every single human being likes listening to music. They just like the music that every single human being can tolerate. Or, I mean, there are things that I like that other people might not like as much, but it I don't just because I don't like I don't know bands and I don't know artists specifically and because I don't like watching bands perform, it doesn't mean I don't like listening to a melody. You know what I mean? I just it's boring to, like, watch a band perform because I'm just sitting there listening with nothing to look at. There's no visual and then I'm bored and I'm, like, standing and I'm, like, yeah. This is great. But, like, what? See. I love that. No. I I love that. That's what makes the world go round. Exactly. See, my way of music was when we went to the La La Land Hollywood Bowl concerty thing. An orchestra. There's an orchestra. There are the dancers. There's the movie playing in the background. There's so much f**king s**t to look at. And then I'm like, oh my god. All my senses are I have wine. I have food. My senses are all overwhelmed that I'm like, this is what life is about. You just need, like, overstimulation to keep you involved and interested. Yes. Like, silent movies, not my fave. Definitely not my fave. And we've already established that you have not watched Amelie, which I cannot believe because No. I've watched Amelie. I just yeah. No. You just don't you haven't found any appreciation for me? Found no. Because I need to sit there and focus and I'm to the point where I don't even need to focus. Like, I know exactly what's happening. And That's great. It's hard to do. But just it's just visually, aesthetically. It's so beautiful. I agree with you. Stimulating you. And the language in itself. Like, I feel like you could not even read the subtitles, and you would you would understand. I think it's my fault because I haven't seen it since I was in high school, and I only saw it once. Okay. Well, yeah. And so, like, now that I'm 28, about to be 29, like, it I feel like I need to just rewatch it. But it it seems like such a daunting task to watch something that you have to look at the subtitles for because that means I have to commit 2 hours of my life to not be on my computer, answer a text, nothing. Well, truthfully, it's it's not the type of movie that if you don't read everything word for word, you're gonna be lost. Like, you will there it I feel like it emotes so much just visually and with the music and just in general that you will kind of be able to to to just feel it through a little bit. You know? Yeah. I need to rewatch it. Someone that it's Amelie, she just wants to change people's lives, and it's very special and unique and sweet and, you know, there's a love story involved. But yeah. Sounds supes optimistic and positive too. It is. And it's in freaking Paris. See? Okay. Yeah. I should just, like, bite the bullet and watch it. It sounds like a great airplane movie because I can have my headphones on. I have the subtitles. Because, honestly, I watch everything in closed captioning anyway. Everything I watch, even captioning anyway. Everything I watch, even reality shows. The most basic s**t. I love to have the closed captioning on the bottom so that I don't miss anything. I know exactly what people are are saying. You've been to my house. I'm the same way. Yeah. And it drives people crazy. I'm like, I like it. That's how you fully understand what's going on. Yeah. Well, and sometimes when I can't fully hear it or there's an accent or something, like, I have to, like, Game of Thrones I was just about to say Game of Thrones, anyone who tries to watch Game of Thrones without that, I'm like, dude, you're, like, setting yourself up for failure. Like, with supersonic hearing, and you can fully understand every kind of dialect and accent there possibly could be. It's into it's it's way too intense. That's why when people are like, I tried to get into Game of Thrones and I just couldn't. I'm like, you need to go in your bed, get your computer, put headphones on, and Put it in front of your face. Front of your face and closed captioning so so that you have the sound all in your ears with your headphones, and you can read it and it's right there. Pull up on your phone. Yes. Like, Google, like, the whole, like like, little diagram of, like Mhmm. Who is who and what house because there's about, I don't know, a trillion characters in that. And especially because, like, after like, see like, there'll be a whole season go that goes by, and they won't talk about a certain character. And then the following season, all of a sudden, the character's back. Again. They're like, who is this person? Yeah. Is he I don't know if he's Targaryen, Lannister, if he's, Greyjoy, if he's, like, you know, the other f**king whatever they are. Like, I mean, it's it's hard as hell to follow. So but but don't let that discourage you because That is the best. It makes it more fun. I will say Katie is the best Game of Thrones watcher I've ever met. Mhmm. Way better than I am. I do the closed captioning thing, but Katie literally sits there with all of her websites open where she knows exactly where to find the right information and then pauses it and does it. I like to try, but I, like, end up on Wikipedia, like, the basic BIM, and I'm like, this isn't solving s**t. Wikipedia doesn't solve anything. I'm just committed as f**k. Do you really are? It's so impressive. Do you know Don't even get me started on the Game of Thrones. Slot machine Oh, god. In Vegas. Legitimately okay. Y'all, I don't gamble at all. I I don't enjoy it. The times that I have, I've never won. I've just threw away money and I'm, like, what the f**k point is this? I would rather go shop in the mall in Las Vegas than sit here and just throw away my money because at least I have something to show for it. Katie is obsessed with the Game of Thrones slot machine, and she's like, trust me. You'll love it because it's Game of Thrones. I know. You hit it on a bad time. I hit it really. Oh, yeah. You hit it at a bad time. I have never once hit anything at a good time. Well, okay. But I'm just saying, like, the the seat rumbles, you have the the speakers behind your ears. It's a penny slot. So some people think that they can just go in and put, like, you know, a dollar in, but you gotta, like well, the thing with slots, you always have to put in, like, a bigger bill. Okay? So how much money? Gotta play max bet. You gotta at least start with the 20. You gotta max bet that s**t. Because then when you hit those bonuses and, you know, Daenerys comes in and she's like, Jacares. And then and then the the dragons come and they light the columns on fire and then all of a sudden the wilds and then all of a sudden it's like ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding ding. And you win, like, $40. It happens like that. But you, like, but you But I don't I don't understand the joy that you get from it a little bit. No. But all you're doing is clicking or, like, pulling something or hitting a button. You're just hitting buttons. So, like, I don't understand. I thought the draw for you with slots would be, like, the free drinking. They're weak. You know, maybe if They're free. You're right. Maybe if I see, this is how I feel because I've tried to relate to you. I the way that you feel about playing the slot machines in Vegas with free drinks is the way that I feel when I just sit on my phone and shop online on my apps. And it's a mindless, like, hardening things that I like and, like, all of that. Thing though. And it's So I I resonate on that level as well. And I also have the same fun playing candy crush. I don't know. I kinda I just kinda like candy crush. I just sorta like those, like, sort of, mindless sort of things. I just I can kind of, like, zone out and just be there a little bit. Do you think that's because your brain's always going? Yeah. Actually, it's it's, like, cathartic for me and, like, therapeutic for my eyes and, like, my hands be focusing on something, but letting my, like, wheels turn for sure. See. I That's why I like those, like, tedious sort of nothing to that's why I like folding laundry. God. I did that all today, and I loathed it. It was like, god. I could be f**king doing so many more fun things right now. But instead, I'm folding laundry and, like, organizing my closet, and I don't like it. That's why I like putting together, like, furniture, like IKEA furniture and all that. I don't It's just it's really wish I was like you. It's really cathartic for me to have a task that I can, you know, semi have to apply myself to, but I can just sort of be doing, but also be thinking of everything else. So that's the only way I can explain it. I don't know how like, everyone like, the things I love to do, most people hate doing. Yeah. I feel like if I was gonna sit at a slot machine, I'd have to take, like, an amount of Adderall that would give me a heart attack. No. You don't have to focus. So that's great. That would be like, that's the only way I would enjoy something that, like I think pressing buttons, I'd just be like, this is so f**king boring. I think you need to, like, hit some bonuses and win and kind of get that, like, adrenaline, that sort of, like, fun sucked into it or But not sucked into it, injected into it. But every type of gambling, I've hated. Like, I remember back in the day, Pandora taught me how to play blackjack in Vegas. Mhmm. Didn't like that either. Patrick tried to teach me how to bet on horses. Didn't like that either. I don't really win ever. I didn't I don't win at any of this stuff. So I'm, like, I'm legitimately just throwing my money away in hopes of, like, be like, having luck. And I I don't like that feeling. You can't go in with that. So I need to learn how to go in thinking that it's something that's fun. Or you just don't enjoy it. There's plenty of people that just, like, that just it's not their cup of tea. Well, I would like to. I mean, it sounds like it would actually save me money if I'm getting free drinks. So instead of buying myself drinks, I'm watching Game of Thrones slots. So, like, it it sounds like it it would be something to me, whether I win or lose, it's I've in I've entertained myself for a period of time, and I've got free drinks. So, you know, I could be getting into worse trouble. No. It is a really good point, except it keeps you awake until, like, 5 in the morning. Sometimes. Well, if you're in Vegas. Yeah. Well, because that that's kind of the allure of the casinos there. Well, see, the allure of Vegas, to me, the third part of of the allure. Okay? So, like, 1 and 2, I think, is, like, drinking outside. You can drink wherever you want, all that. And then the second is themes. I like the themes. Like, there are themes everywhere I go. So, like, there are things for me to look at, and it's like, woah. And then 3rd is they have the most comfortable beds. They do. And also And you never get to use them. Also, pools. I wanna say pool parties. Yeah. I'm saying the pools. Pools. Like, do not take me into a pool party in Vegas. I know. Yeah. But see, like, even when old lady, when that happens, if I can't go and get a a little sunbed and have my little area for my things and be able to just, like, step off, walk 2 feet, dunk in the pool to, like, cool off, and then, you know, there's that if there's, like, loud music and there's too many bodies in the pool where they're definitely peeing, I don't like it. Peeing. People are, like, hooking up with each other. Someone's definitely giving, like, a hand drop under the water. Talking about? I don't like it. It's definitely not loose Band Aids. I'm talking about, like, nice like, you know, still lively. It's still fun, but it's not obnoxious and, you know, just, with a bunch of teenagers, basically. Well, see, that's the thing. I think that every pool that I go to nowadays are filled with 19 year olds who look like, copycats of Kylie, and it makes me feel, like, really inadequate as a woman. Screw that. No. Legitimately, Katie, I tried on this morning my bathing suits for this year. They're all 1 piece. But we are women. They're girls. And I'm like, what is like, I know I'm not not hot. So, like, I know I'm being hard on myself as I'm looking in the mirror. I know, like, I'm just being my own worst critic, but it doesn't help that I'm looking constantly at all of these children that are around me and on Daily Mail and on f**king whatever website that I look at or in every magazine, and they're the size of not my thigh, not one of my thighs, one of my calves. And everyone knows I don't have calves, so that's saying something. Well but then they magically have a butt. But saucy. Magically, they're anorect oh. Suss. Don't make an anorexic joke. But saucy, they're 22 years old. I didn't look like that when I was 22 years old. You No. I looked just really skinny. I didn't have an a*s. But it did first of all, let's not try pretend that that s**t's natural. 1st of all. So just all of these kids moving to LA? All of them, but I'm just saying all these white chicks have just, like, random a*s giant butts. Like, what the f**k is going on? It's an epidemic. I'm not saying I haven't had insecurities with my body, but I feel like I've it's it's ridiculous for me to compare myself to these young women, which as much as I am still young, I'm not that. Like, I I I feel like the age I am now, like, I'm holding it down. Like, I, like, I feel, like, pretty good. Like, I can do a little Frank's coffee scrub on the back of my legs that makes a, you know, appearance of cellulite. So, you know, I I just I've trust me. I can't tell you how many times I've, like, screenshotted, like, Gigi Hadid and been like, goals. Yeah. But that okay. That can be, like, a driving force, but it's not like a realistic goal. No. It's not realistic. I've never gotten a word back. That. But I'm also saying, you know, just remember, at one point, we were those hot b***hes running at the pool that there was probably girls our age that looked at us and been like, oh, really? Like, I'm going home. But their time is going come as well. That's just that is the facts of life. But I was like, your body is meant to change. I don't look I don't look like the the same I was when I was 22. And when I was 22, I don't look the same when I was 15. And when I was 15, I sure as hell didn't look like the time I was 5. Like, our bodies are designed to grow and change, and, like, our bodies are not done changing yet. So You have such a healthy, like, outlook on this s**t because even when I was that hot 20 year old running around in a bathing suit, I was still painfully insecure about it, wondering, like, what I looked like. Like, I never I don't ever remember a time in my life where I was like, I'm hot as f**k and I am happy to be half naked right now. Never did I ever remember thinking that. 100 I look back at pictures from, you know, 6 years ago where I, by no stretch, thought that I was, like, hot s**t. And I thought, like, my arms were like I thought I had, like, a bingo wing, and I thought I had, like, what's a bingo wing? Like, when you're like, your your you know? Your arm flaps. And, you know, like, I like, my stomach wasn't, like, you know, the whole thing. You know, I know and I wouldn't say, like, I thought I was fat, but, like, you know, the the same sort of, like, issues I have with my body the way it is now, I had with it then. And I'm like, sometimes I look at those pictures. I'm like, can I think I was, like, out of shape now the way I was back then? Yes. Like, can I can I go back to that? But but, no. I mean, I'm a fool to think that I could ever, like I mean, maybe I could. I mean, go to the gym, work out, do, you know, do what I gotta do to, like, keep this s**t together. I mean, who knows? Maybe I could look better than that. But, it's impossible to compare ourselves to biology, to science of just, like, how things are when you're that age versus now. I mean, our bodies are getting closer to the age where we're gonna, like, supposed to bear children. You know? I mean, that doesn't mean, like, it's just like that is nature. Like, our bodies are supposed to change, and they will keep changing. So I don't care if, like I mean, I do care just because that's natural. But I mean but I mean but it's not like I can't I I I spend a lot of time getting down on myself, especially in last year about, some weight gain that I had, and it led to, like, other problems. It was kinda toxic to others in my life. And so I had to, like, reel it back in and be like, you know what? Like, I have to be happy with my body. I can do whatever I am physically capable of doing to try to change it, but, you know, my body is designed to change. And I am getting older. I'm I feel like I feel like I keep denying the fact that I'm getting older, and that is sort of the kryptonite. Do do you really feel like you're denying getting older? No. I mean, I know I'm get I don't feel like you are. No. I know I'm I know I'm not somebody that's, like, I would ever say is, like, just crazy. Like, I I don't obsess over. Like, if anything, when I turned 30, I was stoked because I was like, 30 is sexy as f**k. Like, you know, you're a woman. People, you know, take you more seriously. I feel like I feel more comfortable in my skin, and, you know, I embrace it more. I just I you know, you're the womanhood and everything that comes with it. But, you know, I'm I'm still like, I very like, I 100% have insecurities, and it's up to me to handle those in a way that keeps me, healthy and a healthy sort of state of body image in the way I perceive myself because I spent a lot of times crying and not wanting to look at myself in the mirror, not even wanting to have sex with my husband because I just felt gross. So, you know, it's just it became up to me to do something about it because, you know, one minute, I'm able just to kinda, you know, work out and eat what I want. The next minute, I'm like, oh, I'm wearing what I'm eating now. That's cool. Okay. But do you realize, like, how I'm I'm looking at you, and I'm I'm like, we're sitting here in my room, and I'm like, we sound f**king crazy. No. We don't. Because this is how every woman feels. But meaning we could have it. So, like, I I I feel like we could have it so much harder. And No. We can't. And it Like, as every Even the most the skinniest, most stunning girl feels this way. No one I don't think I've ever met someone that just feels like, yeah. I'm hot as s**t, and I can just walk around naked and not give a I mean, okay. Maybe I've met a couple, but, like, it don't I mean, everyone's gonna have their own sort of issues with their body. Everyone's gonna nitpick, and everyone's gonna be critical of themselves, for sure. And I'm in no way saying, like, it could be, like I mean, it could be worse than how. Like, my body is my body, and that's it's going to do its thing regardless. I mean, I can, you know, watch what I eat and go work out. You know? And that's how I can maintain. But my body's gonna do what it wants to do, and there's yeah. There's some people who there's some people who cannot physically gain weight, and they have insecurities about that. So I just feel like, you know, it's it's it's so common for people just to not be happy with their body and the weight is, and especially, you know, when you're used to looking a certain way or you, you know, you think that you look a certain way, and then all of a sudden you feel like you don't. And we're so much in our head about that. And that's that's when it like, it's like this sort of, like, body dysmorphia thing. You know? That's why I don't I don't put myself on a scale. I refuse to weigh myself because I don't do that either. Whenever I go over to someone's house and I see there's a scale in their bathroom, like, what the f**k is wrong with you? You serial killer. Like, what what are you doing to yourself? That is that's oh, no. That means nothing. I mean, if you really wanna weigh yourself, weigh your body mass index. If you weigh yourself doesn't do anything. Look at me. No. But I I wanna weigh the body things. Weight weigh your body mass index. That's how you find out if you're healthy, if you're too overweight or you're too underweight. But stepping on a scale doesn't say anything because if you're working out and you're lifting weights, you're gonna gain muscles. So you're probably gonna like, the scale is gonna be a little heavier. I mean, it's stupid, but I agree with you. I always say if there's a pair of jeans that, you know, I just I'm trying to fit in them. They're just maybe a little too tight or maybe I can't, like, close that button. What I'll do is, like, every week or every other week depending, I'll go and try to put those on. And, like, what a personal victory it is when you can button those jeans and sit down and feel good in them and, like, be able to breathe in them. That is when, you know, that you're changing your body. And I totally not that you have to, but I'm just saying for me, you know, it's not about killing yourself. It's about being healthy. And that's my mission in life is just to figure out the happy medium of enjoying my life. I love food. I love wine and alcohol and everything. And so I like, I mean, like, I've never dieted. I just have always worked out to eat. So I would always I would be able to just eat what I want. I don't mean, like, I want a cheeseburger every day. Meaning, like, I I don't wanna have to cut out things. Reason. Yes. Of course. You know, I always, like, love dessert. I've always had such a sweet tooth. So but I would just, you know, work out consistently. That way, I would be able to maintain my weight and, you know, still be able to be happy and enjoy life's greatest pleasures. Well, see, you're honest about it because I remember growing up, my my, second stepmom, shout out to her, she was super skinny and tall. And it was there was, like, this juxtaposition between her and my mom. And my mom would always be like, we're here to eat. Like, god may or whoever made us or my mom's not even religious. Like, me you know what I mean? Like, whoever put us here, there's a reason that we enjoy eating, so that means we should enjoy it. So we're kind of life's greatest issues. My mom always says, like, I live to eat. And then my stepmom who was this, like, Amazonian woman who was very skinny, and she always said we, we eat to live. And they would literally say these things to me, and I would go every other day. Like, I because my parents were divorced, so I'd go Mondays with my dad, Tuesdays with my mom, Wednesdays with my dad, Thursday. So I was back and forth every single day. So I would have these 2 women telling me the opposite all the time, and I'm like, what is it? This is a f**king f**k. It was such a mind f**k. But when I think about it, I'm like, we actually don't we might eat to live. Yes. We do. And both of those are okay. Both but there's there's like, both of them are half right. But it was still, like to have someone say, I just eat to live, I'm like, then you're, like, you you can't possibly be, like, that happy of a person if, like, you don't enjoy anything. Like, it's one of the greatest pleasures that we have. People don't like, some people enjoy working out and being super active, and they love to you know, like, working out and, you know, marathons and training and all like that. That gives them zest, and that makes their life fuller, and that that leaves them satisfied. Whereas some people are like, I like enjoying, you know, the food and the drink in life. I mean, both of them are okay. And as long as someone's not killing themself one way or the other, that's okay. You know what I mean? Like, I I just because we cannot relate to people who are like, well, I just eat to to live So what I would ask those people, I would say, so if you had the opportunity to eat anything you wanted, not gain a pound, and not feel sick, like, you could still perform at peak level, would you do it? What would they say? Then their argument doesn't make any sense, and it's not true. Well, maybe not necessarily because maybe they actually enjoy what they eat. Like, broccoli? Like, when Kristen tells me that she craves vegetables and she's like But that's Oh my god. I'm so sorry right now. I just like to say, I want some broccoli. Understand that. It doesn't mean that not I want some steamed broccoli. I'm like, what the f**k are you talking about? Like, what do you just mean? That's that's why I just think you just find what works for you and what makes you happy. That's why I don't I personally, I don't believe in, like, dieting. I know how to, like, I know how to moderate my eating. I know I I know how to eat balance. I know I need vegetables. I know I need certain proteins. I know the good fats, and I know when to have carbs. I like you know? But I don't structure or kill myself over that. I just am, like, mindful of sort of, like, my eating schedule. Right. Whereas, like, you know what? I kinda went a little heavy on the carbs yesterday. Like, maybe I should have some, you know, some nice rich greens, maybe some nice solid proteins, like some fish or some chicken and get some greens in there, some, you know, some, like, some super foods. You know? So it's a nice balance. It really is. And then, you know, when I and I will try to curb certain cravings. It's not about dieting. It's just about structuring sort of your life so that you can feel like you're satisfying and you're, you know, you're being happy and not killing yourself. You know? If you want ice cream, Halo Top ice cream is What the f**k is Halo Top? Good. It's really high in protein, actually. What is it? Are you joking? It says ice cream. It's so good. I got my mom hooked on it, but there's there's these other ones. There's, you know, coconut bliss. There's arctic free. Oh my gosh. Patrick loves coconut bliss. And that's it's pretty good. Like healthy ice cream. But no. Let me I will introduce you. If you have the Halo Top birthday cake ice cream Well, birthday cake is my favorite flavor. To die. So, I mean, the whole point the whole point is, like and I use this word very loosely, healthy. But it's definitely the healthier choice if you're going to because it doesn't have, like, the sort of preservatives they they put into ice cream to keep it, like, soft and creamy. You know? So you have to, like so you leave it out on the counter. Like, I'll leave it out there for, like, 5 or 10 minutes, and it'll soften up. And it'll be very creamy and super tasty and super sweet, but it's it's really high in, like, proteins. It has some great fibers in there. So it's actually you know, you're you're actually getting nutrients that you could possibly use. Where the f**k do you get this from? I mean, they have it everywhere. They have it at, like, Ralph's What's it called again? It's called Halo Top. Halo Top. And I like the the mint chocolate chip is delish. The lemon cake Yeah. Is really good. The chocolate It's so It tastes really Gross. It tastes lemon cake ice cream. It tastes really good. Do you wanna try it? And then the birthday cake is probably my favorite. Well, yeah. It tastes like cake batter ice cream. That's so good. Do you know that this week when I was on my period at didn't I text you this? I did. I texted you and Kristen this in our Okay Bianca chat. You want a cold scone and I was like I did it. Cold stone. I ordered 3 different flavors. They're still in my refrigerator because I ate half of each one. You would go for it. Well, I couldn't figure out what I wanted. I was like, birthday cake remix is my favorite. It is the best. But then I was like, I think I kind of want chocolate and peanut butter. And then I was looking at all the other flavors, and one of them was, like, the owner's something. And it was, like, the sweet cream ice cream with, like, brownie and caramel and, like, pecans or something. And I was, like, what the f**k? That sounds bomb. So I'm, like, I gotta get all 3. Well, I go between, like mortified when the person came up to give it to me. I was mortified because it was just me here by myself in a f**king mumu. You know what? Who cares? I know. Girl, feed your soul. Do what you gotta like, I I'm telling you. I well, I sometimes do the thing where I'm like, well, I want something decadent and and I want this. But then I also want, like, something sorta, like, fruity, like a sorbet. I You wanna be able to get all the flavors in. I need options. That's why the lemon cake and then, like, the chalk you know, it's like it kind of, like it kinda goes both ways. Okay. But Fine. I get your lemon cake, sich, then. You I'll I'll I'll I'll give you some. You'll you'll enjoy. But there was actually someone I read. I think it was on BuzzFeed, and she did the Halo Top Diet, which were 5 days all she ate was ice cream. Shut the f**k up. Ice I'll send the link. And she wasn't eating carbs, so she probably felt great. No. She she no. She was doing fine. I think I I I can't remember exactly, but I but, ultimately, at the end of it, she just got really tired of eating ice cream. Yeah. Because I was like, I could totally do this because it is it it it does have, like, nutrients and vitamins and protein. Like a smoothie all day long. It's not You don't you don't get to chew. There's no and I always say chew. As someone who's been on that, like, milkshake liquid diet, I miss chewing so much. I just I, like, wanted just to bite into, like like, a a sandwich or, like, a burger or, like, take a bite of, like, anything and chew it. Like, it's not fun. I mean, you had that had to do, I don't know the shakes smoothie diet because you were in the hospital. So, like because my mouth was wired. She had mostly That's for good reason. But I recommend an all liquid diet to anyone because Did anyone, like, grind up, like, an actual meal for you? Like Yeah. Are you joking? Oh, yeah. That's gross. I always thought that was just, like, in the movies. I thought you would just, like, eat smoothies. And when people actually did grind up something, you just f**king put it down your throat with a straw and taste it in your mouth. Mom, like, she she blended up, like, black beans and rice and chicken and sausage and cheese. And you sucked it with a straw? It was a soup then. It was like a Mexican soup, like a tortilla soup, basically. Okay. It's a soup. Well, when you say it like that, that sounds normal. I did tell her at one point. I'm like, that sounds normal when you say that, though. Well, however, I told her tortilla soup. That sounds right. I told her at one point, I'm like, all I want is In N Out, and she's like, I'll blend up for you. I'm like, no. That see. That's what I'm imagining. Like, blending up a f**king hamburger. That's where I draw the line. Oh, like f**king some chicken enchiladas, which actually would taste like tortilla soup, I guess. Yeah. No. That kinda stuff, I that was easy because it just turned into, like, a soup, and it was delicious. Blend up a pizza? No. That's so gross. When she she was when she offered to blend up a a burger for me. I'm like, in with what? With what kind of liquid? With the with the choke. With the In N Out sauce. Oh. I'm not gonna grow up. But for me, no. No. No. For me, it was the burger was the biting into it. That was why I really and, like, trust me, Thanksgiving was not fun that year. That's Not fun. Sucks a*s. What did you do in Thanksgiving? I had mashed potatoes, gravy, and turkey blended. You I'm sorry. And green bean casserole. Wait. Okay. Mashed potatoes, gravy, and green bean casserole. And not sorry for you, but did you just say turkey blended? Yeah. So you sipped turkey through a straw? I mean, it was blended. Did you sip it through a straw? I had how else would I have it? Thought you were gonna blend it and maybe, like, put it over your mashed potatoes like it was f**king baby food or something. You sipped it through wait. I had to. That was still just because Well, first of all, when I you have to have that? When I eat my Thanksgiving, it's all, like, I don't I'm do do you not mix everything together? Yeah. But not when it's blended like baby food. I didn't have a choice. So I would've been like, yep. Not gonna have turkey this year. It tasted just as good. It tasted great. That's fascinating. I know it's sad, but That is no. That's fascinating. Like, I But then at Christmas, my jaw was unhinged, so I had tri tip steak. Good for you. And I could hardly chew it, but it was great. I feel bad even, like, comparing, like, situations. But when I got my chin implant, Sheena Manina brought me 4 Godiva shakes. Each of them, I think, 2,000 calories a piece, and I didn't know that. She didn't care to tell me that. So I had four Godiva milkshakes in one day, and I thought that that would feed me. I had at least 2 milkshakes a day when my jaw was wired. You're making me feel better then. Well, no. I had to. Did you ask your mom to spike that? Do do you realize that my leggings didn't fit me? I lost so much weight. I didn't care. I didn't care how much, like, calories are in a milkshake. I started I at the end of it, I was drinking Ensure just to make sure that I was, like, actually getting, like, fats and good things for my body. I remember okay. See, again, I feel bad comparing things to you, but, like, I I because you went through something so really sorry. But Well, no. Just in case I I feel like most people that listen to my podcast on they've watched Vanderpump Rules or they've heard you on before. Maybe if but if they don't know, Katie almost died. She fell through a roof and A skylight. A a sky and 25 feet. And hit a stairway and all of that and legitimately almost died. And explain all the things that you broke because there's, like, a lot of things that you broke. I mean, the point of how it happened is, like, you know No. Yeah. Just it's moot. But, yeah, the skylight, it was Bubba. She's a stairwell. I took 25 feet. I hit my mouth on a wooden handrail, and then I landed on the stairs, and I hit the back of my head. I hit basically all of my right ribs and my, right, like, shoulder, almost collar bone area. So I pretty much broke my entire right shoulder to rib situation, and I had, a brain injury. It's called the subdural hematoma. It's, bleeding of the brain. So it's this, like, blood clot in the back part of my brain. And, and then my jaw was broken in 2 places, so I had to be wired shut. And then 2 weeks after, I had to have, like, an emergency surgery on my jaw. They had to, like, screw a titanium plate to my lower jaw so it would heal straight. But, ultimately, I was wired shut for about a month and a half. And I had lost, like, 3 of my bottom teeth, which was a blessing in disguise because I had a a hole for my straw where I would ingest food. So, yeah, so, I was super, super, super fortunate to to survive with, at that point, minimal injuries. I mean, scary ones, like brain injuries are no joke. But just to be able to ultimately walk away and heal, within a couple of months, It was pretty extraordinary, but it wasn't it wasn't easy. But I, you know, I was so thankful that I wasn't worse and so happy to be alive and was counting my blessings right and left and, just was super positive and focused on getting healed. And, yeah. f**king crazy. Yeah. Hey, guys. 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I don't know where I had the f**king balls to ask any questions like that and be a brat. Like, I was new. I don't know where I I had, like, the courage to do s**t like that. So it was f**king crazy. I started sir. Katie started sir. Same week. b***h doesn't show up. And I'm c**ky as f**k being like, where's the other new girl? And then someone says, oh my gosh. She she fell off a roof. She's a model, and she fell off a roof on a photo shoot. And because it had been watered down, the whole story had gone through 50,000,000 different people and then came back to me. Because, when I ended up in ICU and my mom flew into LA and I was next to my bedside. I remembered because I had finished my training at Sarah. I'd been working there for, like, 3 weeks. I'd finished my training. My accident happened, like, you know, late Sunday or early Monday morning, whatever. So it's Monday, and I'm supposed to start my first I'm supposed to start my first actual shift, non training, on the floor at SIR that night. So here I am hooked up to morphine, and I'm all, like, just, like, don't have a care in the world. I'm, like, just, like, living my life in the IC unit unit. And my mom, like, doesn't even know what to do. My family's around me, like, oh my god. And I'm just like, hey, you guys. Thanks for coming. Super weird. But that's kind of, like, why morphine's great, I guess, and it does its job. But I'd say to my mom, like, mom, you have to call sir. You have to tell them I can't cut to my shift. Like, I was so concerned, like, about CIR and, like, losing my job that here I am, like, with, you know, doctors making sure my brain is no longer bleeding, but I'm telling my mom to call CIR. CIR. And so my mom, not knowing the whole story, she knew I was on my friend's roof, and we were taking pictures. It was not a photo shoot. So, yeah, so when my mom calls Natalie, I mean, this is how awesome the game of telephone works is that Yes. She was on the roof taking pictures with her friends turns into, oh, well, yeah, she's a model. And I know. It I just I feel like such a dick, granted. Whatever. Everyone's a model. 2 or 21. 21, I think. I was 20. You're 20. I was 20. I was a f**king b***hy little c**ksucker. You know, I was an a*****e. So I'm like, oh my god. A model fell off a roof? How stereotypical. And then here we are, best friends that many years later. Like, if you would've told me that if someone if someone would've told me that as I was sitting there just making fun of a model falling off a roof, which did not happen, which is funny because not what happened. Like, that chick that you're just laughing at right now, he's gonna be your best friend. I think I met you during my training, but I don't remember. But I think you might have been the one of the first ones to text me to cover your shift. While you were in the hospital? No. I was in the hospital. I mean, I was I was in the hospital for, like, 3 days or 2 and a half days. Oh. No. It was this was, like, in December sometime. And but I was still I was definitely, like, not back in LA. I didn't come back to LA till, like, after 1st. But, yeah, you definitely wanted the first ones. Like, hey. This is Stasi from SIR. Like, are you able to cover my shift? And I'm like, hey. I'm still, like, not covered. I said something back, but I was like, wait. Stop. Because we had the peep we we had people working at SIR with, like, the strangest names. Yeah. And I just remember your name standing out to me and being like, Stassie. Stassie? Stassie? Stassie? God. Why would you even be my friend? Oh, well, I remember I was like, why would you be my f**king friend? I sound like a dick. It took me it took us a it took us a minute because you were very, like you you know, I got a little bit of, like, the the Stasse, like, little treatment even when I came back because you didn't know about me. And I was friends with Christina Kelly because I knew her boyfriend from, like, back in the day. And I remember it was before Tom and I got together, but we were talking about I was talking to someone about, like, a relationship or this guy I was seeing. And and you chimed in, and you're like, wait. So, like and you you started giving me advice. And you go, wait a minute. Like, how old are you? And I was like, I'm 24. And you, like, shrunk shrunk up. You're like, oh, okay. Never mind. Yeah. Because you thought you, like, you thought I thought I was older than you. Younger than me. I yeah. You and Kristen will always say, like, I looked younger than you, and you thought you were gonna, like, impart some wisdom on me. I'm I'm such a dick. Which is funny because I've, like, been nothing but, like, your, like I know. You're a you're a what do you call that? Someone who's lived a 1000000 lives that just helps me with that type of s**t. And I sat here as, like, a 20 year old being, like, let me help you. Oh my gosh. Knowing absolutely nothing. That's so embarrassing. Okay. You know okay. You know what I am to you? I don't know. I've been trying to think of it. I am the Maharishi. I don't know who that is. It's like a guru. It's like Okay. The ultimate mentor guru. Maharishi. Maharishi. The only thing I know of is, like, on Moulin Rouge where he's like, the Maharaja. Do you remember that part? Yeah. I mean I'm the Maharishi. You're the Maharishi. And you didn't know You are. You didn't know. Yeah. Because you're my wisdom friend. Because I feel like the Maharishi is, like, is a, like, an unassuming person. You would never you no. You are an unassuming per you would never I would never I don't think most anyone would actually ever think of you as a Maharishi unless they know you very well. Well, first of all, that's, like, that's, like, really, like, blowing smoke on my a*s. But, yeah, but in this case But no. You know, like, we've talked about how you are and we've talked about this on my last podcast that you are an old soul. Yeah. So you know things in a you will you it's not about knowing things. It's you see things differently. I just feel like I've been not like I've been there, done that. But, like, I I see things differently. Yeah. I see things differently because I felt like I've learned something in this past you know, in a past or something. Like, I just it's one of those, like, I've been here. I know I just have this sense, and, like, my intuition is very strong about how to handle a certain situation or how I should, go about things, which is helpful. It's such a weird thing for me to, like, hear you talk about because I don't feel like that about anything. I really don't. I've never once felt like I've been here before. I've never once felt like I know when to trust my intuition. I really don't. But you have your intuition is there. But I don't really know. I don't I don't know. I don't I'm not sure. You never get a gut feeling, a gut instinct? Like, there's never something that you're just like, I feel I feel real like, there's just something inside of in my gut or just something that's screaming at me. Like, if I feel it or if I feel yes. If I feel in danger. That's your intuition. And but, also, I feel like I could be way wrong about that because I feel like, I have this opinion about intuition that I'm put like, that I'm doing air quotes with intuition is that I feel like because I don't I think that because intuition is something that you can't fully define and explain, it could be a culmination of how you were raised and what you were exposed to, or it could be just already how you were born and what's already within you. So, like, because there's no proof of anything, I'm like, well, is my intuition do I have this gut feeling because of an experience I had when I was a kid? And so it's making me feel like this is so, like, what is it? So I don't trust my gut or my intuition because I think there's so much that goes into it that I'm I I I don't trust my opinions and thoughts all the time. Well, that's that's a problem. I don't wanna say a problem, but that is that well, I'm just trying to be realistic. I know. No. No. And, it's not about being realistic or not. I feel like intuitively and, you know, even instinctually, that is being realistic. Because the first thing when something happens that, like, speaks to me and speaks to any of us is whether you choose or not to listen is your intuition and your instinct. Like, there will be something that sort there will be a little light or a little switch that turns on that goes, oh oh. Hello. Okay. I have a question then to ask you. Okay. I have a question to ask you. So I try and think like, when you talk to me about intuition, I my brain immediately goes to, like, friends, then it goes to not trusting a stranger or, like, having a an an experience with a stranger, and then it goes to, like, boyfriends, and then it goes so so all of these things, let's say, let's choose the first one friends. Like, a a friendship or so an acquaintance that I get a bad feeling about right away. There's somebody that I meet and I just don't trust. Mhmm. And it turns out for a while that I was right, that I shouldn't have trusted that person. But then, ultimately, that person then changes or proves me wrong or is still the same person that they were, but then it's somebody that then becomes a friend and you accept. I had a bad I had a gut feeling. I'm just using this as an example. Sorry, Kristen. I love you so much. We both love you. I'm just this is the only example I can use right now to, like that I think you would understand. I had my gut told me that Kristen when Kristen hooked up with Jax years years ago. Okay? I'm just it's, oh, it's the biggest example I can use. My gut told me, like, I am right. I know it. I feel it. I sense she's lying. I know it. I know it. I know it. I know it. Like, but I guess when I feel like, to me, I I think I'm so black and white as a person where it's, like, you're either bad or good that, like, it I struggle with, like, the intuition aspect of it because just because my intuition was like, this person is lying. She did this. She's like, you don't trust it. My gut is telling me not to. She ultimately is still one of my best friends and one of your best friends, and and we love her. Like, she's our sister. Like and so then I feel like, well, then what was my intuition and gut telling me? And so that's where I get confused about things. I mean, does that make sense to you? No. 100%. If your if your gut if your intuition is telling you straight off the bat that this is, like, like, I my gut is telling me, like, yes. Trust that. It doesn't mean that you cannot leave room for human error or benefit of the doubt, but just know that your gut is telling you. So it doesn't mean that you can't, you know, pursue that and just, like, give someone the benefit of the doubt and to see it through, but just, you know, you know that it's it's especially hard when it comes to, like, friendships and stuff like that because you wanna be able to be compassionate and and sensitive towards that person because you care about them. That's where I get confused with my gut. Like, I But you don't have, like, you don't have to ignore it just because it's, like, your friend or someone you love and care about. It's, like, it's kind of, like, finding that that sort of middle ground that, like, sort of gray area where you can always keep in the back of your mind that you know, but, like, you wanna give this person a chance. Yeah. And if that and and and if if after that, your gut and intuition is still telling you otherwise, then you have your answer, and then it's just it's just kind of a little bit of practice. It's like have like, having your intuition. It's like having a relationship with someone with your intuition of trusting it enough, but being also able to explore the surrounding areas in a way that you don't ignore it. You don't deny it, but that you are acknowledging it, but still leaving room for benefit of the doubt and human error. I think that that I think that's that is just, like, the most human way possible. I mean, if I just went with everything, my gut told everything. I mean, imagine like, I mean, I know we've had issues where I've just been like, well, I just I just know. I just feel. And, like, that doesn't suit you. That doesn't that doesn't work with friendships. That's how I that's how I that's why I struggle with it because in in my brain, I think it it's hard for me to say, okay. My gut's telling me that I think this person is wrong or I think this person means doesn't mean well or something like that. And and maybe I'm just such a basic thinker that, like, my brain instantly goes to that type of stuff. And so then I'm like, well, And so then I'm like, well, then does that mean that person is just bad all around? And so, like, that's the way that I I'm I really struggle with, like, that. And that's why I I don't trust. You tend to be kind of polarized in ways. Yeah. So, like, the best thing I feel like is that if you just stopped if you got more comfortable in that gray area. It's easier for you because you kind of are always like, you're very like, you want to have an opinion and very quickly and very and very strong and stick to it. And, like, you've I've always said you're super tenacious, and I I think that's dope. I love that about you. But, when there comes these situations where you do need to, like, kind of, be, you know, look within, you have to you have to be comfortable in that gray area. You and you have to know what your gut is telling you and trust it. But, also, you know, take care and, you know, in preservation of your relationship and yourself in this environment. Because peep like, if you're just like, well, my intuition tells me, and people are gonna be like, oh, well, f**k you and your intuition. That's not that's not the point. But I'm just saying, please my new thing. But but f**k you and your but plea like, and this is something like, trust me. Like, this is something that my mom taught me. Shout out to my mama Luna. Seriously. Shout out to Terry. She always said trust your gut. But that's because you both are trust I know but you old soul. You both are like don't need but you don't need to be like that, sassy, because your your intuition is speaking to you. You do hear it. So you gotta listen to it and trust it trust it more than you trust yourself, honestly, but still seek it out. Still still try to pursue the truth. Try to talk to people. Like I like I said, like, I always instinctually intuitively, like, know things. But I still there's, like, still, there's a little shred of doubt that lives in my head because I am not a f**king a*****e that I like I like to leave room for that. Yeah. Because, you know, sometimes I'm wrong. You know? But that's that's why sometimes people say they have a hard time getting to know me. Because intuitively, like, usually when I know like, when I meet people for the first time, I get, like, just a vibe off of them. Like, something inside of me, like my stomach or, like, my, like, like, a I'll get, like, a signal from, like, the, you know Yeah. The inside that is like, oh, maybe not or, like, oh my god. This person is may you know? And so I would say 80% of the time. I'm not super, like, putting myself out there to people. And even since in high school, people that maybe didn't know me for long or got to know me would always say, oh my god. I thought you were a b***h. I'm like, no. I'm really not. They're like, no. You're, like, the nicest person ever. I'm like, no. I'm just like I'm kind of with people. It's just like I will just sort of, like like not get a reading on people. Not like in that, like, you know, psychic way get a reading on people. But, like, I won't my my gut is like, I'm not quite sure. So I I kinda like to hang back and observe, and I'll talk, and I'll be you know? But until I don't, you know, until I feel comfortable or I know how to approach a person or whatever, there's just something that's holding me back, not because I don't trust them or it's because I think they're bad. There's just something that holds me back. And I just I just trusted my I've, like I put trust in my intuition a long, long time ago. So it's, like, on autopilot that when it kicks in, I just follow, and I sort of pilot that when it kicks in, I just follow, and I sort of navigate around it and where I need to be, but it's always the thing that guides me. So I still I still leave room, but it but it is the thing that guides me. So because, Sassy, you know it's there, trust it. Just try it one time. Sorry. The cowbells are there. Yo. You little s**theads. So You know it's there. Just trust it and let it guide you. Just try one time where you don't try to, like, overanalyze or see black and white. Just listen to what it tells you, and then just still approach things in a way that's, you know, open minded but still aware deep down. Well, you know, it makes me feel better when I hear you say this s**t because every time that you've talked about just trusting your gut and your intuition, I'm like, f**k that. That means that people are either bad or good, and then peep like, either this situation's bad or good. And, like, I just I can't I then I just don't feel like committing to, like, really feeling like someone is just only good or something's someone's only bad. And I just I I I really just think that maybe I don't have a as high of an IQ as I would like. But then you stop making decisions on other people's actions, and you start choosing and making decisions on friendships based on what suits you and ultimately, like, what your intuition, like, guides you towards. That's what I mean. It's more of like a spiritual route to take things. Sure. I can look like a bully or look like a mean girl because I don't include everyone in my life, but there's a reason I don't do that. There's a reason I have a guard up. There's a reason why I'm not friends with every person on this planet or every person that's around me. It doesn't mean I cannot get along or be nice to them. But there's just something that I put up between between myself and that person because it's inherent or it's it just it just needs to be there because I'm just trusting my intuition got on that. And and, ultimately, whether it takes 3 days, 3 months, 3 years, I never look back, and I never like, I mean, I do have regrets, but I, like, I do have very, very few regrets with people just because I'm not I'm not in I'm not on this planet to to make friends with people and be nice and try to get along with everyone. I real I do try that, but, also, I'm here to get the most out of life. And then if people don't bring anything to me, if I don't benefit on multiple levels from a friendship with someone or from a relationship, what's the point? Yeah. No. I'm hearing you. At home and, like, just reflecting or painting my nails or putting together IKEA furniture or petting my dog or hanging with my husband or doing something. I don't need to like, I my life is not a popularity contest. I don't need to try to be friends with everyone. If someone is giving me vibes that do not work with me, that make me nervous, that give me stress, that give me anxiety. Why would I pursue a friendship with someone? Katie. For the love of God That makes explain to me. So I'm not it's not being mean. I'm not withholding friendship with people that from people that don't deserve it. But I feel that way and you know that, but I am on, like, my first or one and a half life. What is that you're on my Tamara, Rishi. What what what life are you on right now do you think you're on? You asked me this last week. Forgot what it was, though. I don't know. I said, like, 4, 5. Oh, really? For some reason, I was gonna say something later than that. I don't know. Just like there's some things that come to life in me, like, really easy. And I'm not talking about, like, riding a bike or you know? I don't I didn't think you were learning how to, like, snowboard or speaking of it's just it's sort of like those sort of rudimentary fundamental things in life that just help you navigate and get through. Your 4th or 5th life. Just I mean, maybe perhaps. I have no I don't know. I mean, wouldn't it be cool to find out? You know what? I hope the one thing I hope I can die is that I can see everywhere I've been and just see just, like, my like, I wanna I want, like, a When you laugh, I want pie charts. Once your your lives are over, you can see everything that you've done. I wanna know if, like, if I've been animals, like, male, female. Yeah. I mean Have I been a royal? That would be dope. Would be so f**king cool. Have I ever killed anyone? That would be so f**king cool. Seriously? 2 things. Mhmm. Actually, 3 things I would love to know too. Animal, royal, killed someone. Maybe in my first life, I did, and that's why I am a little b***h and scared to break rules. See, but that is fascinating. Maybe. I don't know. I mean, I just feel like, you know, each life you're meant to learn something about what's like living. Does that make sense? Is that give me am I getting too existential? No. I feel like I feel like for your for your soul, for your spirit to be, like, you have to really know what it's like to live on so many levels and know what's worth living and what you're living for. And that's why I believe in, like, this so uncalled reincarnation in multiple lives is because it's just it's not for nothing. It's not for nothing. And, you know, as much as, like, I believe in, like, a higher power, higher spirit because I think there's just something beautiful about having faith, and I, like, at the same time, I can be romantic and, like, love, like, fate and destiny and all that Even though I should probably know better. I just love it. I think that's kind of part of living and just being able to, like, you know, experience that sort of spiritual end of things and, like, if there's something romantic about it, but as much as that. But I also believe in, like, aliens and extra extra curricular Yeah. I mean Not extra curricular. Extra terrestrials? Extra curricular life. Extra terrestrials. Alien, the movie last night again. Well, the last the most recent one, and that s**t made me feel weird. I don't know. I Was it my favorite? Because I don't like action packed movies, but, like, it still makes you think about what does it mean. When I see alien movies, it makes me feel like our lives are meaningless and we don't have souls, honestly. Because I feel like they're the universe is endless, and so it makes me feel depressed when I think about, like, when I watch a movie like Taylor. Soulless. I think the more we can We're, like, not soulless. You're right. No. We can't I think the more we can broaden our, like, our spectrum of thinking and and awareness in this universe And even what's beyond that is more it's not soulless. It's soulful. You're right. You're right. You're right. You're right. You're right. Accepting of, like, what's bigger than us. Be more accepting of what's bigger than you. That's why people who don't travel the world, people who stay in a bubble, no offense to anyone that does that, but it's just like you're missing out on so much life and so much things to see. I agree with that. You like, there's nothing like, traveling there's nothing like traveling the world that makes you understand how small Yes. We are. Well, there's nothing more enriching than than traveling. But when I think about our lives, and I'm like, would I give up, like, having my job and just actually, like, traveling? And I'm like, if I didn't have to just travel with a backpack, maybe. Like, no. For real. I mean, it is the most fun that I could ever have was in Europe with you guys. The most fun I could ever have. No. I mean, it's it's it's it's insane to, like, look at another country with loved ones and just be like, holy f**k. Like, this is so cool that we're experiencing things, and we're looking at history. And somebody touched this, like, a 1000 years ago or 500 years ago or 20 years ago, it doesn't even matter. Like, if you just think about, like, what actually happened in the past, it's so it's so f**king cool. When you stir up at the Neut Jejam and you're like, hello, s**t. That was What? That started being, like, 11 100, I think. 1100. I think 1100. Yeah. I don't even remember the year 1900. Yeah. I mean, it's it is just it's so vast. And, like, you know, you can see North America. You can see all that. But, I mean, like, you gotta get yourself out there because there's nothing more, humbling and more enriching than than seeing this the world that we live in. Yeah. God knows what else is out there. I mean, we already know what else is, like, sort of even not even relatively close to us. I mean, there's there's it's an abyss. So abyss? Is that, like, a b y s s? A b y s s. That's what I just said. An abyss is like Didn't I say it spelled that? Said a b s s. S s, I think. I don't know. In my brain, I was thinking a b y s s. An abyss is like it's a indefinite sort of like, there's no end. It's an infinity. Universe. Yeah. Dude, you should have seen alien last night. You'd be on the same page as I was because I I am right now because I am just all about, like, what the f**k does everything mean? What is everything when you ever you see an alien movie, you're like, what the f**k does everything mean? Well, I And this was, like, a basic alien movie. I I think alien I mean, they're right under our nose. I feel like I get men in black. That is the most fun idea of what aliens are ever. Just take a walk. Let's me just walk. Don't you love Wilson? I was just trying to think of that. Galaxy defender. Galaxy defender. Yeah. Alright. I get it. Wait. Men in Black is my listen. Will Smith is my hangover cure all the time. All day. I will say Men in Black could cure my hangover, but not Wild Wild West. Wild Wild West more than anything else. I love sleeping. I love love sleeping. I mean, is there anything more fun than sleeping? I don't even know if eating's as fun. I don't even know if having sex is as fun as sleeping. I just love sleeping as much as I possibly can, but I don't like sleeping if I'm on a really f**king uncomfortable mattress, which is why I've always been obsessed with Casper mattress mattresses because, well, my boyfriend and some of my friends work in the radio industry, and so I've been around Casper mattresses before they even became a sponsor of mine. And they were also my first sponsor, so I have a place in my heart for them. Let me explain to you what Casper mattresses are, okay, and the reason why they're not so expensive. So, basically, they've developed this mattress that is a supportive memory foam. Okay? So it's breathable. It comes rolled up in a box, so it's super easy to, mail and all of that s**t. And it's just really comfortable and keeps you cool. 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Welcome to Play It, a new podcast network featuring radio and TV personalities talking business, sports, tech, entertainment, and more. Play it at play dot it. Katie has been telling me to watch Riverdale for 2 months. I've been, like, borderline threatening you. To watch it. She got busy. And I was, like, f**k. I can't just commit to Riverdale real fast. I'm already finishing. What do you say? I'm doing all these things. But I knew once you started it, you'd get hooked. I finished it in 3 days. I'm insane. 3 f**king days, and I was like, that show is what's f**king up. Okay. Not only, okay, not only does it have that sort of, like, throwback to the child that even before us of, like, the Archie Comics Yeah. Explain real fast. So, you guys, just in case you haven't you don't know anything we're talking about, Riverdale is on Netflix, and it's the same Netflix. That's where I was watching it. Where were you watching it? I bought it on Amazon Prime. Like, if some Are you serious? Like, I guess I had $20 to the Oh, you got it for free. $20 On net book. Well spent. But but it normally airs on the CW. That's why I kept reading that because aft I would Google it all the time, and I'm like, why do they keep saying CW? It's on Netflix for free. It's a CW show, so if that says anything So it's like Gossip Girl. Gossip Girl. And it is kind of like Gossip Girl with the way that it's filmed and the characters, but it's the Archie comics. You have Betty Betty, Veronica, Archie Jughead. Jughead. Blossom. She, I stalk her. I'm following Cherry Blossom. Cherry, I I follow her. I know. Shout out to Cherry Blossom because I follow her Instagram. I stalk her on Instagram. All of them on Instagram. I follow the rest of them, but I have to keep my 66 But can I talk can I say why I started watching it? Yeah. Why did you start watching it? Because I had become aware probably because of freaking BuzzFeed again. Haunts me in my dreams. I become aware, per them, that the Sprouse twins, Cole and Dylan, had grown up. And let me tell you how they've grown up. Is this what you just told me about the head? Sprouse plays Jughead. Wait. But peep can you explain who the twins are again? Okay. Cole Sprouse okay. The Sprouse twins, you know them from big daddy. Okay? You know them from Friends and also from Zach and Cody's Suite Life of Zach and Cody. Yes. So you have to explain that to us that we don't know them. So, basically names to the rest of us. Been watching them since they were tiny children. So the last one of them is Doug Ed? That sucks for the other one. Well, they were only played the same character because there was, like, child labor laws. I know. But, like, do you think, like, both of them Mary Kate and Ashley played Michelle because they I know what Mary Kate and Ashley didn't wanna be actors anymore. But, like, do you think both of them auditioned for Jughead and only one of them got it? No. Because I am a psycho. And, when I, no, I when I read this BuzzFeed, it was like, oh, the Sprawl students have grown up. I'm like, oh, yeah. I remember them. And I was like, holy s**t. Hello. You love young boys. Susset. I've already told you. Like, you like, once you feel like once you once you once you say once I turn 30 that I'm gonna like young boys too. Well, I told you. I don't mean the word young boys. I guess They're not young. You become a cougar. I don't think I will. I I will. Stop making me feel like I sound, like, weird. I like making you feel that way. Pedophile. I am never gonna stop. Sit in. I should be in jail. Like, you are hooking up with Archie. Sorry. It's not to You well, you first of all, you think Archie in the show is hot. Archie is attractive. Okay. Well, okay. So, anyways, so anyways so when I saw, like, oh, the Sprouse twins have grown up, and I was like, dear god. Yes. They have. Let me read on. And they talked about what they were doing, gone to college, gone to school. Well, Cole Sprouse. I'm kidding. I'm doing a I'm doing a heart. Like, I'm drawing a heart with my fingers. So he plays Jughead. So I had a dream. Oh, love hearing people's dreams. It might have been this is this is how my Justin Bieber obsession began. It's because I randomly had a dream. Did you have a dream before you saw Riverdale? No. No. I'm telling you, this is how my obsession with Justin Bieber because I was like, no. I was asking you about your dream with I know. I know. No. No. I know. I'm telling you. But, like, before Okay. I'm sorry. I had a dream that was, like, not super sexual. It was Justin Bieber, but, like, it was, like, kinda like a little, like, you know, sexually charged. It was sexual. It was sexually charged, and I woke up. And I was like and then just from there and out, like, my obsession with Justin Bieber grew. So I I had read just some random article about how Cole Sprouse is, like, babelicious now. And I was like, yep. He is. And, woke up one night from a dream that was, again, sexually charged with me and a 24 year old, and I'm married. That's not that old. No big deal. And I was like and literally woke up, and within 30 minutes was ordering the entire season of Riverdale because I was like, I I get that, Katie. I don't know. I'm all the same about a dude. No, Katie. That's it. I think that all of no. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna s**t on you for this. I'm not gonna make fun of you. When you have a dream about someone, then you're just like, you're intrigued. You're committed. So you I'm not out there. And then it's not like I set out there to go try to find the guy and, like No. No. I'm a married woman. But I was, like, I was, like, you know what? But I get it. He is fine. No. He's not. He can get it. No. He's No. He can't. He can't get it. Gross. No. Sassy, this you're he's not your type. I know. This is why if we were ever in our lives to be single together, are we gonna get it in life? Work out so well. I guess in my second life and your you would 5th or 6th life. We would never have to fight over anyone except Charlie Hunnam. So yeah. That's a good point. So but I will kill you. Yes. But I brought that up to Patrick because I was like, we should go see key I don't remember. Oh, no. Oh, yeah. Patrick was like, I think I'm gonna get my haircut. And I was like, you're cutting off your man bun? This is a side note. Like, you're cutting off no. Because I asked him to grow up. I like a man bun when I know someone's not, like, a metrosexual. So, like, I liked that, like, I contributed to this. And I think Patrick looks really good with a man bun, and he's like, I wanna get it cut. I think it's time. Like, I think it's time. I've done it for a really long time. Nope. And then he's like, look. Charlie Hunnam, like he, like, brought this up on the computer, and he's like, I don't know. He had a man bun, and now he doesn't. He doesn't look as hot anymore. And I was like, do we have to go see Charlie Hunnam? So I don't know. And then he's like, you like Charlie Hunnam? I'm like, I Charlie Hunnam. I was like, can we go see King Arthur? He's like, it got really bad reviews. I'm like, you're just saying that because I just admitted it got ticked. We tried to go see it yesterday and it wasn't around anymore. Okay. But you have to see it. Then wait for it wait for it to come out. Here. But we tried. I'm just telling you. No. Tom, when we try will fight over. I told you, Tom, when I when we wanna go see movies, he's like, King Arthur. I'm like, wait. King Arthur reminds me. He's like, oh, you know, that boy the boyfriend, your boyfriend, the guy you really like. Everyone likes who doesn't like Charlie Hunnam? I know. It's a universally attractive male. Like, you can't So that will be the only one. Be like, he doesn't do it for me. I mean, who could possibly f**king say that? So that would be the only one that we would like. Other than that, no. You can go for the children, and I'll go for the the men. Sure. Why not? So yeah. Archie's so much hotter than that guy. No. Archie is such a babe, and he plays guitar and he sings. I don't care about that. Which is weird because that's an alluring aspect of him. But but you know what else I like? Because not only did I start watching Riverdale, I read, like, every they all did. I wanted to hear how they all felt because they're all super young. I'm like, what what do they know about Archie and Betty, Veronica, Jughead? Like, what do they know about it? You really think that they all actually read the comics? Yes. I think comics died with us. Listen. No. No. I'm sorry. Oh, no. No. I just I just the last part of that generation. I bought one before I do you know what's really funny? When I was in Florida with Tom, like, 3 months ago, I bought one. Where? From the supermarket. They had one there. Yeah. I have it upstairs in my bedroom or my in my little Okay. But do you really think I think that they were told to say that. No. No. No. Listen. Because this is this is nothing. You know what I like? I think Cole Sprouse is an old soul. He definitely is. And I and I showed you his, like, camera duel Instagram account that you thought was super club and hilarious. Oh, yeah. I forgot. I didn't even watch it yet. You got he started making fun of the fact that, you know, when he'd go out and, like, you would see people Yes. Wait. No. Low key. First of all, people are never low key about, like, taking a picture of you. Like, you can it's like you just That happened to us at Zara today when I was being a brat. Okay. Well The people behind you. Alright. Well, you can just sense it sometimes. So he took it to another level. Well, when he would sense it, he would just, like, not give a f**k, and he would take his camera out and try to take a picture of the person taking a picture of him before they could. So his Instagram is called camera duels. He is an old soul. Right? And it sounds like I could never do that. He his whole thing with his whole take on Jughead was that he really wanted to play his characters. Like, not having a love set a a love story, but playing the whole, like, asexual part of it because Jug hadn't Jug had never had a love story in the comics. But there's a love story in this season. I know. But he didn't he was adverse to it. Because he Up to him. I know. But no. But he wanted to stay true to the comics, which I which I appreciated. Okay. I'm just saying, I thought that was interesting because That is an interesting tidbit. I'll I I'll give you that. I thought that was I could respect that because I was just like, you know what? He's someone who So studied the he studied the comic. He understood that Jughead was sort of, like, this sort of, like, not outcast, but, like, he was sort of, like, his like, he's the Dan Humphrey, except Dan Humphrey is super sexually charged. He has to have sex with everyone. Well, eventually, he did. Well, like yeah. Do you know what I mean? Like, he wasn't just, like, just an outcast. He's not Regina. Which one's Regina? Regina. Was that her not her name? In in Gossip Girl? Yeah. Michelle Trachterburner? Did she not Oh, Georgina. Oh, f**king hell. Georgina. Sorry. Georgina. Yes. Because of Come on. Regina. Has had sex with every single person. Blair, Serena, Georgina, Vanessa. I know. But he's his sister, and we just don't know about it. Oh, god. Well, I don't I don't feel like that hap okay. Until after George I was just making a comparison between Jughead and Dan Humphrey. Well, I'm just saying that I appreciated that Cole Sprouse did his f**king due diligence and wanted to, like, really play into his character. I mean, he even, like, he wore this beanie because Jug had always or his wore, like, a just, like, kinda crown looking hat thing, and he wore a beanie the whole time that looked like a crown. But I just thought he just was f**king awesome. Okay. And I think he's a babe. Questions. Can we talk about any other person besides first of all, I wanna ask you a quick question. First of all, who does Archie's hair that color is perfectionist? The right amount of Same with, blossom. With blossom with is it I thought it was Cheryl. Cheryl blossom. Is it Cherry or Cheryl? Cheryl. Cheryl? Whatever. It's a play on Cherry, but Cheryl. Okay. She might be the prettiest person I've ever seen in my entire life, not only face wise, but also having the prettiest hair I've ever seen in my entire life. Me like your mom in some ways. My mom would really appreciate that. But she does in some ways. I started following her on Instagram, and I I fell into a deep black hole. She's stalking her. And I'm like, this chick is, like, a next level pretty. What the f**k? How do people get born like that nowadays? See? That's what I mean. Children nowadays. People that are 10 years younger than us shouldn't allow to be alive. Sorry. Also like that she, like, lived that gossam life. You like that she lived that, like, gothic life in that house. f**k. Yeah. Anyone who okay. You guys need to go on Netflix right now. Watch Riverdale. You will understand everything, especially if you've read the comics. Because you know my uncle DJ who've you met a million times? Mhmm. You know the golden apple on Melrose? It was, like, the original Oh, yes. I know it well. My brother has worked, I mean, my uncle has worked there since before I was born, and he worked there for, like, I think 20 years. I won a costume contest there one time. Are you serious? Yep. I used to go in there as a little kid to visit my uncle, and he'd be like, what do you want? Do you want the Betty and Veronica? And that's how I knew about comic books because he would give me the girly Betty and Veronica ones. Yeah. So when you said this is a Betty and Veronica TV show, I was like, holy f**k. That is so I didn't even think other people knew about that. And you are Betty and I am Veronica. I know. It's so annoying because Betty's, like, not my fave. I love Betty, but I'm not a slut to the bed. Has. She's got you know, when she clenches her fist? Yeah. I just I'm not that good at staying calm. I honestly feel like I'm really close to the blossom. But but Veronica okay. I'm just not a slut. Cheryl blossom, but, like, I'm I feel like I'm definitely Veronica. Well, you're feisty as f**k. Okay. How do you state her name? Is it Madeline? You are like you are like Veronica also because you're able to stay mature. Yeah. And you're able to to be cunning. So I am I you know, this is what I'll say. I'm a cross between Betty because I don't feel like I'm actually an a*****e No. And Cheryl. Yep. I wait. Okay. So living in Cheryl's house. Girl that plays Cheryl Blossom how do we say is it Madeline? I don't know how to say anyone's names. Petch? I know. I just follow her on Instagram. It's not Madeline. It's gotta be Madelaine. Madelaine Pets. Like Madelaine. Madelaine. Dude, she's so gorgeous. It's unreal. It's not even okay. And I love how they're all friends and they hang out with each other, like, on Instagram. I know. It's so awesome. I love you guys. With you guys, but they're all supe, young. Let's figure out She's 22 years old. I don't care. My sister's 22. Let's, you know, let's give a shout out to all these people. Yo. If anyone who is friends with any of these Veronica. And Veronica's f**king boss. And the I feel bad that we're I feel bad that we're even saying that, like, Cheryl's, like, so stunning because all the women are on that show. Like, they're all are perfection. Like, bright and white. Camila Mendez. Like, they're All of them are so f**king pretty. Them, and I'm just like, your eyes sparkle. Your skin is perfect. Camila Mendez Camila Mendez is giving me brow envy. Yeah. Seriously. Anyone of you is friends with them Listen. If anyone knows any of them, tell them. Especially full brows. I promise not to I won't be creepy. I swear to god. I'm married. But, like She totally will be creepy. I won't. So I can be I will try. I fine. I will try. I will try. I will try to behave myself. Baby. I will try to behave myself. Okay. For real? Get at us. Get at us. Holler holler at your girls. On the gram, on the tweet. My phone number is Yeah. Email me. Get me on WhatsApp. Yeah. Whatever you need to do, please. Just someone get in touch with us because we're obsessed with all of them. Can we And I thank Katie for that. What if we could do okay, you guys. We could do a q and a, straight up a saucy podcast. We could do it. We could we could harass them all the questions, and I promise not to, like, try to, like, sit on close by us' lap. Thank you for giving me For more than 5 seconds. This is what I've and you know what? No. We're gonna do 1 on ones, and you're you'll just be there with me. So we'll do to babysit me. No. I'm just saying because I need to look profesh. I need to look profesh to my colleagues and to so I'll let you you can be you can be a co you can be a cohost, but it has to be 1 guest at a time. So we can start with whoever bites. Okay. Whoever bites first. Riverdale folks. Riverdale folks, please. Please. We're desperate for it. Please. Just because I I don't think there's a day in my life that goes by that I don't think about a particular moment. I wanna go to Pops. I want a milkshake as well. I wish we were at Pops right now having milkshakes and burgers. I wanna live in a haunted house like the blossoms. Well, this is a haunted. You just want a graveyard. Well, it looks like but it looks like a haunted house. I mean, it could've looked more haunted. I just kinda want, like, cool stuff, like, hollering at me. Sorry. Shout out to Betty's mom who was on Gossip Girl. Yes. Gold. She was gold. Okay. Shout out to Luke Perry for Oh, shout out to him. Honestly, you know what? I'd rather he's he's the heartthrob in the whole thing too. He should he should get out this s**t too. More so than Archie. All of them and any of any of them. Okay. We'll take what we can get. Mhmm. Have you been an extra? We'll take you. Anyone. Alright. Love you guys. Love you, Khaleesi's. Follow Katie on Instagram and Twitter and Snapchat at music kills Kate. Buy me a drink. Oh. I will take a hold in me. Bye y'all. Bye.

Past Episodes

Stassi sits down with Sarah Hoover to discuss her memoir, The Motherload which is Stassi?s absolute favourite. Sarah opens up about her experiences with postpartum depression, childbirth  trauma, and those first few years of motherhood when she felt completely disconnected from her baby. It?s a raw, relatable conversation that will make every mom feel seen and less alone. They dive into the messy, beautiful truths of motherhood, the identity shifts, the boring baby classes, and  the magical moments that make it all worth it. Plus, they swap spooky ghost stories (because why not?) and how they?ve found their groove as mom?s. This episode is like a cozy chat  with your besties?honest, empowering, and a reminder that you?re not alone in the wild ride of motherhood.

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01:21:38 2/12/2025

Stassi is spilling all the royal tea in this episode, and it?s all about the one and only Marie Antoinette! Joined by Even the Royals co-hosts Brooke Siffrin and Aricia Skidmore-Williams, they?re diving into the life of history?s most glamorous (and controversial) queen.

They?re breaking down the wildest rumors, the scandalous 18th-century tabloids (think TikTok drama channels), and the infamous Diamond Necklace Affair that helped topple the monarchy. Turns out, Marie was the original victim of cancel culture?hated for things she didn?t even do. Stassi opens up about her deep connection to Versailles, sharing why she?s so drawn to its opulence and drama. Together, they debate the highs and lows of royal life and tie it all together with a chat about Meghan Markle. 

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01:09:46 2/5/2025

Stassi is joined by her sister Georgi for a fun-filled catch-up packed with laughs and sisterly banter. They dive into the age-old debate: who?s got it worse?middle kids or firstborns? (Hint: Stassi?s the firstborn and has opinions.) They also dish on Hartford?s Wicked-meets-Frozen birthday bash and chat about how parents today are upping their playground game to avoid mom-shaming. Stassi fangirls over Outlander?s latest time-travel twists, reminisces about rocking the Castlecore vibe before it was trendy, and wraps up with dreamy Jonathan Bailey moments. This episode is pure sisterly fun!

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01:11:54 1/29/2025

In the short but terrible time that we thought TikTok was gone, Stassi had some big realizations?like maybe high-stress situations aren?t her thing. Thankfully, TikTok survived, and now she?s joined by hysterical TikTok star Max Balegde! They spill royal tea, laugh about Max?s sweaty hands debacle, and swap stories about Disney conspiracy theories. From Samuel L. Jackson?s unrecorded interview to Max?s rise from viral videos to international TV, this episode is packed with hilarious moments and UK vibes. All thanks to the app that almost wasn?t!

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01:22:54 1/22/2025

Stassi and Beau share their deeply personal story of navigating the Los Angeles wildfires, where everything changed in an instant. As they struggled to manage their fear and panic?Stassi showing hers outwardly, Beau trying to stay calm?they worked together to prepare their kids and make the emotional decision to evacuate their beloved home before winds kicked back up this week.

They reflect on how losing a home, whether you?re a celebrity or not, is about so much more than walls?it?s about memories, safety, and love. They are both consumed with thoughts of those who have lost absolutely everything they have worked hard to build. It's unimaginable. If you feel inclined to donate, at the end of the episode, they share some organizations supporting wildfire victims that are making a big difference.

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01:22:38 1/17/2025

Stassi and C-O-Lo are kicking off 2025 with some major New Year's energy! After a long break with her kids, she?s feeling emotional about Hartford growing up?especially now that her daughter lives in her Elphaba outfit and has her contemplating a Frozen-meets-Wicked birthday party mashup. Stassi is on a mission to find her word of the year, taking inspo from Meghan Markle?s resilience, and spilling on how she?s tackling social anxiety as part of her New Year's goals.  Plus, she?s narrowing down her signature scent and embracing her forever love for Castlecore (she was into it before it was trendy). New year, new magic, and all the energy focused on manifesting positivity!

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01:14:18 1/8/2025

Stassi and her bestie Taylor Strecker are diving into holiday laughs and festive fun in this special Christmas Day episode. They kick things off dreaming up Jesus? signature cocktail (espresso martini or Prosecco?) and laughing about Stassi?s idea for a gallery-worthy painting of Jesus with his drink of choice?sorry, Beau! TikTok panic is real as Stassi preps for its possible farewell, and Taylor spills the tea on hosting Anna Delvey at her holiday party. From cheetah-print ornaments to Santa Barbara Christmas plans and toddler-level Santa logistics, it?s holiday magic, laughs, and plenty of inappropriate gifts. Cheers!

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01:06:50 12/25/2024

Stassi and C-O-Lo are bringing the holiday cheer and a side of awkwardness in this festive episode! Stassi dives into her deep discomfort with opening gifts in front of people (can we normalize private gift-opening, please?) and shares her hilarious white elephant story, complete with sneaky gift-hiding. They chat about the lost art of thank-you cards, go-to holiday gift ideas, and the magic of Elf on the Shelf. Plus, Stassi vents about Beau hijacking her perfectly curated wrapping aesthetic, and they swap stories about revealing the big secret about Santa. It?s all things holiday, with laughs, relatable rants, and plenty of sparkle!

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01:09:41 12/18/2024

Stassi?s back, and this time, Beau joins her for what?s basically a podcast date night. They kick things off with Stassi?s mysterious chin pain and dreams of a Mommy Makeover before diving into a hilarious game of questions. From social media icks like caption cringe and overused filters to conspiracies about secret celebrity tunnels with elite Starbucks, nothing?s off-limits. Stassi debates how she?d prove she?s from the future (witch or leader vibes?), and Beau dreams of a 1960s sports car while Stassi plans to splurge on Versailles antiques. It?s all fun, laughs, and a lot to talk about with these two!

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01:12:47 12/11/2024

Stassi kicks off December with her BFF Taylor Strecker for a hilarious chat that covers everything from Christmas chaos to internet trolls. Stassi shares her dream of escaping LA?s holiday monotony, and the duo swaps parenting stories, like Messer?s energy overload to Hartford tattling on bounce house kids, and Stassi hilariously ?tells on herself? as a self-proclaimed narc They dive into celebrity gossip, including Taylor?s viral Page Six moments, and dish on beauty trends like preventative facelifts. Add yin-yang twin dynamics, Stassi's awkward Moana premiere moment, and a little Lindsey Lohan glow-up admiration?it?s holiday overload!

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01:11:15 12/4/2024

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