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Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley
00:00:00 1/26/2023

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I hate gift giving and receiving receiving gifts is so weird. What do you say? Thank you. This is coffee convos with Kale Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley. I really want you to be in your field scale. That does not interest me whatsoever. I feel very attacked by you. A spirited discussion about motherhood, friendship, family and life in the public eye. I'm just not with the fakery anymore. There's a fakery bakery around here. Here's Caitlin Lindsay. We're recording. We're on the air. Wait, what? Corky Campbell's is on the air. Good morning Coffee Convos podcast. I'm not get the countdown warning this morning, so I don't know if Kale was trying to catch me off guard or what was happening. But good morning, I didn't expect to start that quickly. I thought that we could have a very like. Sometimes we just like shoot the s**t. And so I was like, Let's do a chaotic morning for coffee combos, but you look great, your hair looks great, you look great, you look fantastic. Let me tell you, I have not felt the vibes in some time, and I woke up this morning and I have just like not wanted to get ready at all. You know, like when you're feeling down and you just want to take a shower like not put yourself together, put on some fresh clothes or pajamas and then like, do nothing else. Yes. Yeah, that's been my life for pretty much like the past couple of months. And so when I realized, oh yeah, I committed that I was going to be on camera this morning, I was like, Wow, I love that. For me, and I actually hate everything about this, you know, it's like one of those mornings where you're like storming around in your bathroom because like, you hate everything that you're doing. Oh, I've had those types of mornings a lot. Part of it is because my closet is still in boxes. So if I send you a picture of my current, the current state of my closet, I it just makes me want to throw a fit in the morning because like I know I have clothes, they just can't find them. So then the clothes that I do have out, I hate everything. And then if I hate everything that my outfit, my hair, my makeup all looks like s**t. So I completely understand I am a firm believer that if you feel like your outfit looks like s**t, you just automatically look like s**t because you're not feeling the vibes. And so everything just like goes downhill from there. Speaking of closets, when did you ever get your closet, like, built out? So it didn't happen yet, but I started. I went with closets by design, and they should be here any day. Probably. Well, probably like two weeks. They called me yesterday because I have a safe in my closet and it's like a tall one, and it's probably like two feet wide. And so they she called me and she was like, Hey, like, I need you to send me the model number so they can make sure that they build that part of the closet to fit the safe. So I think they're just finalizing details and then and then it'll be done. When I tell you, I did not expect for my like budget to have to accommodate what you did for my closet build outs. That's something that I way underestimated, and it definitely needed to be done because my closet, I think I've talked about this before, but I swear somebody who was like six seven built my closet because the way that they installed the shelves, there's no way that like I would have been able to get to like the top part. And so I was only able for the first six, eight months that I lived here. I was only able to use like that bottom shelf. And so I would fold stuff and like, put it on the top of the shelf and then obviously like hanging stuff. But there was minimal hanging space and there is nothing worse than having your stuff disorganized and not knowing where to find something. I would be searching for socks. We all know I don't wear underwear, so like that wasn't something that I was searching for, but it was just like mass chaos. And when I tell you, my most favorite investment in this house has been Jackson's closet because he does not get his own stuff out in the morning. I talked about how he is all into jerseys now, so I know that he wants to wear jerseys every day. But as far as like caring about his underwear, his pants. Anything like that. Like I do all of that. And so it's been so helpful for me in the mornings to just know exactly where to go to find something. I'm just so pissed off, too, because my old closet at my old house was done like I had the neat method come to it. I remember last year for Christmas when we went to Atlanta and I took a picture in my gray timberland boots. I have not been able to find those timberland boots in since that trip, so I'm like, and I got so many compliments on those I can promise you I didn't steal them. That's not my. No, I was like, I didn't steal it. No, I don't think you stole it. I don't think anyone stole them. I think I either left them at the Airbnb or just there somewhere in the closet, but I will post a picture of the closet a little video only because I know that it's going to get done. And so I won't live like that forever. But it is such a s**t show, and I hope that when they come to the closet in a couple, probably a week or two, I hope I find those boots because they're not sold anymore, like you can't get them at the store. So it's not like I can just like, buy a new pair. It's so funny that we're even talking about this because I had screenshot this list of 50 things to throw away for instant decluttering, and I plan to print this today to, like, start going through this list and I'm just going to work from the top. But see, it's just like a list of 50 things, and it's anywhere from like old magazines, old books, broken makeup, old perfume, half empty bottles, towels with holes like it's things that you think that you need to get rid of, but you wouldn't think to put together on a list. Wait, we need to talk about the half empty bottles thing because like, I'm so weird about the things that I spend my money on. Kristin wants to kill me because I will go by like some random s**t that I may or may not even use, but I will not throw away half empty products. I will use them out until the very last drop, even if I hate the product. So I spent money on it. I'm going to use it, but I will then go spend five hundred dollars at target on s**t that I don't know if I'm going to use. It's very weird what I am willing to throw out and waste versus like using every last drop, you get bamboozled by a target like way worse than me. And I truly think that if anybody here says they would think the exact opposite that I would be like the type of person that goes into target leaves with like a full car with a bunch of stuff. But I truly am such a minimalist and I have become more minimalistic. Is that the right word? Minimalist? Yeah. Since I have become older, I used to hoard stuff like that. I got like, these little tiny. Do you remember those Lancome joke tubes? Like how popular they were? Yeah, I had like little bitty tiny ones that were in like a stocking stuffer pack from when I was probably in high school. And I swear to you, I didn't get rid of the last one until I moved into this house. You wait because you couldn't let it go or because you just needed to use it or why? I don't know. It's just like it was like a cool thing to have, and I don't know why. I thought it was like, cool to still have it. And you only use like a little bit. So if you got like 10 juicy tubes, like 10 little tiny ones, they're going to last you for a long time because I am more. OK, so are you more of like a gloss lipstick style wear or are you more of like a chapstick? I do love a good leg chapstick or lip balm. Yeah, but I've been a big fan of lip oils lately. OK, so I've been a big fan of oils lately, period. Like all over my body, I talked about it on the southern tea, like 100 percent pure argan oil all over my body. I have now gone out and found argan oil shampoo and conditioner, a hair mask like I'm big into it. And I think the older that I get, the more dry my skin gets and so big into that. So I need to try to lip oils because I haven't tried lip oil. But what's on my lips right now is just that tart. What's that lipstick that it's like a gloss like pump? Oh, I just put it onto its eye, Mara. What was it? I'm looking it up. Hold on, Mara. I want to pronounce it right. Hold on. I wonder you must have the same one as me. Markkula juicy tube or something like that, I think is what it's called. I don't know if that's what. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's like Mara or something. Anyway, those things are amazing. I can post a picture of it, but those things are amazing and I have those literally everywhere all over my house also. So I feel like those are going to become like the next use YouTube for me. But I have become really good about like decluttering everything, even all the way down to my refrigerator. Are you the type of person that throws away stuff once the expiration hits like you throw it out or you leave it in in the fridge? No, I, I now throw everything away regularly. My pantry can't always stay the same. However, I do want to touch on grocery prices right now are they have skyrocketed for me, and I do use Instacart regularly. But that being said, I, Elijah and I started a calendar that's on the fridge and we are writing down every single meal of the week. And I love that actually really, really helped us go through the. Pantry items. So this past week when the kids were all at their dads, like we got rid of everything that was expired and then we used there was stuff that we could use and then now I'm only purchasing what we need versus like stocking up, if that makes sense. Yeah. And same with like snacks for this kid's school. Like, I'm not buying snacks for all day grazing at home. We are buying snacks for school, and that's it. So it's funny that you say that because when I had my pantry organized and someone came and helped me because I get so overwhelmed with that stuff, but and people would think that's why Kristin says, I am a closet type B, but I like type things. I'm not good at doing it, but like, I know what I like and I know what I need to be able to be a functioning human. But I have baskets in my pantry, so my pantry is actually split in a hallway. So like one side and then one side. So it's too interesting on one of the sides. It's all like Jackson stuff. And then on the other side, it's all of like what I would be making meals with or like my supplements like all of that. So it's really easy to keep it organized. But I have specific snacks that are like school snacks and then snacks that are home snacks. And I am a big believer like you should make your kids when they go to the grocery store and they ask you for something you say, like, you can pick one or two home snacks and they have to go through all of those snacks before you purchase. Because we got in a habit of going to like Sam's and Costco and buying stuff that came in those like individual packs. And then they would just go to waste because then they would get old and he wasn't finishing them now. And then he wanted by the time because we bought it in such high quantity that by the time it like started getting towards the end, he didn't want it anymore. He was on to like a new snack. He was tired of it. That makes sense. That makes so much. I mean, I do like and will does this too is like if he wants a cereal, he picks like a cereal for the week. Like one cereal. OK, yeah. And then he has to finish that before he can get a different cereal. Yeah. Oh, wait. Speaking of food, I went to grab dinner last night and I was looking on the menu and I was like, I want wings. And as I'm like scrolling through the menu, I see where it's like drums and then it says Flappers. I saw the picture you sent and I was like, What the f**k is like? I know what they mean, like flappers like wings, but who calls them that? That's not a thing. No. So I have heard other people call them before, and so then it made me get self-conscious. Have I been calling them flat like this whole time? And it's really like slap slaps, but I'm pretty sure it's flat, like a flat wing and everywhere else that I have been like the place that I regularly go. They call them drums and flats. Wait, OK, so but drums, what part of that? What part of the chicken is that? I don't know. Looks like it's kneecap, doesn't it? Think it's a big gap? I think it looks like it could be a stop gap. Is it like a fountain like I'm trying to get out of like the flats are like, that's like a wing. I'm telling you it looks like a kneecap. Hold on. What is what part of the chicken is? A drum is the drums. We're about to find out the upper arm of the chicken wing. The drum led is called the drum because it looks like a smaller version of a drumstick, which is part of the leg. Oh, OK. You can't tell me that a drum does not look like a crusty kneecap. Like, it's just weird, but we're yeah. Before we move on, I need to tell you we got an email from the school and it's like the clinic drive or whatever. I don't know if you all do it, but it's where you send them products where, like the clinic, the clinic? What is that like? The school nurse? Like the clinic first, I've heard it referred to as a clinic number one number. What do you call it? The nurse? The school nurse at the clinic, it's the clinic. Wait, so what time out? What kinds of things you send in to them? OK. So one thing that my kids schools have never requested something for. OK, so the reason that I give to this specific this actual drive every year is because I know how much my son goes to the clinic. So I'm like, he's probably blazing through all of their products, but it's like many water bottles like many Gatorade Mini, whatever, like Sprite, ginger ales, pretzel individual packs of pretzels, which is what I signed up to take. But then it got to the bottom part and I was like, Oh my God, I have to ask about this because I always got afraid to like. s**t or piss my pants at school because I was afraid that I would have to go to the clinic and use like used underwear because, you know, like back, I would just send you home. Now they don't just send you home, like if you s**t or piss on yourself, then you just go to the clinic and you get clean clothes or like if you fall in mud or get something on your clothes and like, it's too wet or something, you go to the clinic and get other clothes like, what are you talking about? Like, you never did this? No, I never put myself in school ever or s**t more like kids at barfed on themselves like they had to go and get like fresh clothes. They had to go get brushes. So I remember back when I was in school, they would do where you sent in all of your old stuff. So it basically was like goodwill, but like at the clinic. So you sent in like your old panties and your old underwear and stuff and then know they would change them out. Like I'm pretty sure they were all like old stuff. I remember that growing up. And now in today's time, I'm like, These kids are getting fresh draws up at the school. When we were growing up, we didn't get fresh dolls like we just got whatever was at the clinic fresh, dry and it was like a pack of underwear not opened and pack of panties like, not open. And that was just like, not a thing when ever we were growing up. But Will was like, why are you giving to the clinic drive? Like, why are you taking pretzels up to the school? And I'm like, Because my kids probably the one eating them, you're like, We need to contribute where my kid is eating snacks. Exactly, yes. Oh, I never heard of this. I made a post on my Facebook because I'm one of Lux's little friends at sports. His mom is a school nurse. Oh, right. Yeah. And I don't remember them ever asking like they do drives regularly at the schools, like for food pantries and just donations like I think we've done, like donations to the troops and things like that in the past. But I don't think that we've ever done something for the nurses. I wonder I'm going to I'm going to get back to you on that. By the next time we record, I'll have I'll have some answers for you. Perfect. Yeah, let me know. Coffee Combos podcast is brought to you by progressive insurance. Hey, coffee combos, listeners, whether you love true crime or comedies, celebrity interviews, news or even motivational speakers, you call the shots on what's on your podcast. You right? And guess what? Now you can call the shots on your auto insurance to enter the name your price tool from Progressive. The name your price tool puts you in charge of your auto insurance by working just the way it sounds. You tell Progressive how much you want to pay for car insurance. Then they'll show you a variety of coverages that fit within your budget, giving you options. Now that's something that you'll want to press play on. It's easy to start a quote, and you'll be able to choose the best option for you fast. It's just one of the many ways that you can save with progressive insurance. Quote today at Progressive dot com to try the name your price tool for yourself and join the over twenty nine million drivers who trust progressive, progressive casualty insurance company and affiliates price and coverage match limited by state law. Outside of that, when I was getting ready this morning, I left my earrings somewhere and don't have them in my ear, and I have always felt like a naked person if I don't have on earrings. Yep. Mm. OK. Can you tell me how you say in a Katie naked, naked, naked, like your naked acted like? Get your neck it a*s over here. You know my car. So I have to tell you last night. Mondays, Wednesdays and Thursdays right now are really crazy for us because of basketball practice. We have basketball practice three nights a week and Lincoln's playing in two leagues. So the one league that he's in was last May in Lux was like, I want to go because he gets to like, warm up with Lincoln. And so that's fun. And I don't know. I just there's something about like watching your kids play together like a sport together. It's a different kind of like brotherhood, like, yeah, they're real brothers. But then like being in a sport with someone, you get what I'm saying. So we get home, we do bathtime, we do all of that. And then Lex was like, Mom, I really because Creed still sleeps in a crib, but was like, I really want to sleep in the crib with Creed, and I rock creed to sleep every single night, and that's just our routine. I never changed since we went through the sleep consultant. Creed did not want Lux to sleep with him. He was like, Get out my crew. He's crying is like, Get out my crib. So I was like, once he falls asleep, you can go sleep with him, like once he's already asleep. And so he lux waited awake in his bed. And when I went to go check on him because normally I lay with him to go to sleep, he was like, Can I go? He sat straight up and he's like, Can I go sleep in his crib? And I was like, Sure, he brings his little pillow in there and he lays down. I have a picture up, dude, I'll post it. But it was so cute. So this morning when they woke up, I said, you know, did because it was a tight squeeze. Yeah. I said, you know, did he wake up at all? And he said, no, he didn't wake up at all in the night. And then when I when I asked Creed, I said, Where did Lux sleep last night? And he said in my crib. And they were so happy that they slept in his crib together. I was the cutest f**king thing. I'll post a picture when this episode airs. It was just so f**king cute. That's so sweet. See, I don't have any of that kind of stuff going on that I do kind of feel FOMO whenever I hear things about siblings like that and I'm like, Man, I wish Jackson had that experience, but him sleeping in a crib at 10 is like, that's just like, not a realistic thought process. So, yeah, no, definitely. I can just I can love it for your kids. Yeah. Talking about the closets and stuff after I finish recording, I have a meeting for the Southern T because there's changes that are about to happen over there. I'll text you about them, but I am so excited. I was looking at the back of your wall where it has like your decals or whatever on it, and I'm like, I'm just in my kitchen. But I am finally putting together this week my desk so that I will be podcasting from because my desk, I had it built into my closet because my closet is so big, so I got it built in, so I'll be in there, hopefully in the next two weeks. Oh, that's so exciting. That's so don't you love when like something new is happening and it's just like the littlest things will just be great? Well, I love the whole process of like something coming together. So yeah, my friend who is helping me, she helped me put my guest bedroom together, which I'll have to take pictures of and show you guys because I absolutely love it. You saw what I did to my guest bedroom. I sent you this. Yes, I like design. Loved, loved, loved, loved. So I'm going to take a picture and I'll post that for coffee convos when this airs. But also, she's helping me put together my office and she's coming over today and we're doing like sushi and champagne. I'm putting it together and I'm so excited about it. But when I walked in my bathroom today, it was an absolute mess. Like I wish if. I had one thing that I could get someone to do for me every single day, it would be clean up after me everywhere I go. Well, I am messy, but I am clean. Like, I will have stuff like everywhere, and then I get so overwhelmed that like, I just don't care. So then I just don't do anything. But I had to go back into my bathroom to unplug all of my stuff that I had plugged up. And I wonder how many people also have the anxiety of knowing that you have unplug something and you've gone back and checked it like five times because you keep tricking your mind. You're like, I did unplug it and it's going to burn my house on fire. So then you go back and check it again. I will do that five times and will still have anxiety. When am I leave my house thinking that I have left something plugged up? So it's funny that you bring that up because I had a tick tock the other day. I did like a reset, a Sunday reset in my bathroom because my bathroom was so messy and my curling iron was plugged in and someone commented that it was like, Don't you have anxiety about that? And you know, what's funny is right after that video I realized that the very next day I left, I not only left it plugged in, I left the curling iron turned on and some of my some of my hot tools have automatic shut off after so long. Like, I don't know if you have the Bombay wand, but that one shuts off automatically after some time. But this specific one that I had in my bathroom did not have an automatic shut off and it it was still plugged in. It was still on and it f**king scared the piss out of me. So now I no longer just leave it plugged in. I'm ripping that s**t out of the wall because I'm terrified. I work too f**king hard for my house to set on fire from some careless f**king mistake that I made. So I will be. Let me tell you everything, kale. I have the worst anxiety about it. Like it is not normal. I need to be seen about it because it truly is like affecting my life. And I don't know, like when I turned this way, I can't remember, like exactly when this started happening. But I know within probably the last couple of months, I've become way more cautious of it, and it's not like I burned my house down or anything, but I am so terrified. So I do. I don't even turn it off like I just unplug it from the wall and then I go back in there and I will check like five, six times before I leave the house, and then I'll still think about it when I'm somewhere. I had that about carbon monoxide. Yeah, I know that story that those people, like all that whole family like, passed away from it, that we talked about in Mexico. Oh, right. Well, and also one of my girlfriends from football, her family was in her family as a part like the family was together in an apartment and it happened to them and they all had to go to the hospital and stuff like that. I think I briefly mentioned it on here, but I have like this over what like how you are, what you're describing. Your anxiety with like hot tools plugged in is how I feel about carbon monoxide. And I'm always like, are these smoke detectors also carbon monoxide detectors? Because that's terrifying. And I have kids, small children, they're closer to the ground like it's terrifying. And I don't know why I have this like overwhelming anxiety that it's like, I'll get, you know, when you wake up in the middle of the night and you're like, Where's my birth certificate? I get that all the time. I know what it what, what you wake up in the middle of the night and start thinking of your birth certificate. Yes, sometimes I'm like, Wait, where did I put my Social Security card? Is my passport expired? Are all of the kids passports in the sea? Like, Where's the safe like? Now I'm thinking about where is the safe like right now? Where is it because I have a stellar one and then I have a bigger one? I need to look for that when I get off this podcast because I'm thinking, like, where is it? But yeah, you don't ever do that. Like now the night you got, it's really no kill. No, that is literally not what I think of when I it straight up. I think like somebody in my house, you're going to murder me. I think Brian, co-workers here, like those, are the types of thoughts that I have, but definitely not. Where is my birth certificate like? No, really. Because last night I sat straight up and I was like, It's my passport expired because I'm going to Thailand and I'm like, Is it expired? Because if it is, I don't know if I have time to renew it, but I didn't check it yet. But I think it actually expires next year. But I got to find the safe because it's in there. First of all, I need to say something about the safe because I thought that was only a thing that grandparents did like. I don't have that. You don't. I put mine in a fire fireproof safe with a case. Your house catches on fire. Yes. What do you mean? My divorce was in there. Oh, because we that can often that cannot be that I can not qualify for. My divorce decree is in there. My birth certificate. All the kids birth certificates. All of our Social Security cards and all of our passports are in the fireproof lockbox. OK, I got to go get a fireproof lock box, because now I'm thinking if I leave my curling iron plugged up, my house catches on fire, all of my documents are gone like, yeah, and like it. Just yeah, they're replaceable. You can always get new ones, but I don't know about you. But if you ever waited a f**king Social Security office, I would rather get myself out a window because that's s**t. You'll be there for hours like the the birth certificates way easier to get because you can order it online or go down to an office of vital statistics. But also, if you are not in the state, it's a pain in the a*s. Because Isaac and I were both born in Pennsylvania, the rest of my kids were born in Delaware, so Delaware ones are fine. I can just go downtown. But the Social Security office f**king forget about it. I will not wait there for six, seven, eight hours, so I won't do it. Well, hello, God. Speaking of, isn't it so funny that you say that? Hold on. I'm going to cover this up. But like, who told me they should be sitting on my counter? Why is that on your counter? I don't know. I like it's that. Oh my. Sam's business card. Starbucks gets word. Guess what? Speaking of my titties, it is so I for a long. OK, so I've told you guys on this podcast before that I never really had credit cards, right? So I got my first credit card. I guess it was last year at this point. So proud of you for that. Yes. And it was just like it was one that I really wanted because it has good travel rewards. And Christine got approved for it first, and I was really sad because I didn't get approved for it, which is weird because like I got a mortgage and car payments and s**t. Well, I applied for an Amex, which was the other card that I really wanted. I don't want any other credit cards. Knock on wood. I don't need them for any reason, but I got approved for an Amex card and then I casually told percent and she goes, Oh, so we did apply for it. We applied for that, and I was like, Yes. And so I did just get approved for that, and I'm very excited. Although I don't think everywhere accepts Amex. No everywhere doesn't accept Amex, but I've never really had any problems. Although Christine regularly causes me out because I stroll around with my debit card, using it everywhere, and she's like that. Like, Why do you not use your credit card? But I have like a weird thing with it. It makes me freak out. I know I have the money to pay it at the end of the month, but it's like if I go and use my debit card, the money is like right there. So it just like takes it right away. I don't worry about it. That is something that I will sit up in the middle of the night and be like, How much money have I spent on my credit card? And yes, I know I have the money, but like, I need to get it paid right this second. Like, I am so, so weird about like borrowing like feeling like I'm borrowing from somebody like so weird. If I really wanted to get a credit card for the Travel Rewards and the Treat, the chase card was that for me, and I think I said this before. But you know, friends of mine, what they do. Instead of using a debit card, which they have a debit card, they pay for every single thing on their credit card all year long, everything. And then they pay it every month. And then they get they do their anniversary trip with all of their points, and they don't have to pay a single dime for their Mexican Mexican. Their Mexico trip, everything. I think that was so smart, and that's why it was the credit card. So this is I'm not trying to be tone deaf when I'm talking about credit cards and Amex and things like that, and I'm not trying to not read the room. I'm just saying for anyone who wants a credit card, doesn't have one, doesn't really know how to use it. I think that if you look into the rewards of specific credit cards and find out like if you like, what is your goal like mine was for travel rewards. So that's why I got the Travel Rewards credit card. Same for you. I like the perks somewhat like grocery perks, cash back. Like, there are so many different things. But speaking of the tone deaf thing, I don't think that's tone deaf. I think that's smart spending, honestly, because you're gaining something by spending. And if you're only putting on there, I'm not saying to like, overspend what you would regularly be spending. But if you're just putting on there what you would have to be paying anyway, it makes sense. That's just the conversation I had with Christine, literally like Friday. Yeah, that's exactly what I mean. It's like, don't apply for credit cards for, you know, just to overspend. It's more so to get the rewards. If you're going to use a debit card, why not use a credit card? So if you can help it, Lindsey, I would definitely suggest this. I have a lot of points for travel, and so it's been really great. She said that she's going to try to learn the Amex system. I don't know if you have any Amex, right? I feel like you told me on Amex. Yeah, I don't know if all of the different cards have the same rewards system or anything, but she said she's going to try to learn the rewards so we can figure out what is best for meet. What purchases are best for me to put on that specific card. But OK, I need to tell you something really quick because I feel like you eat better than I do so. Well, I feel like you've been maybe, maybe not better than me, but you have been. Two more foods. Mm hmm. So Elijah made steaks the other night, like I said, we do this calendar now, so we avoid like overspending on groceries and things expiring and s**t, right? So we were going to make beef. And he made steaks and he hands me the A1 steak sauce. And I don't think anything of it, and I put a little bit on my plate and I did the steak in it. And I think steak is good by itself. I don't necessarily need sauce or anything. I hate A1 steaks. The original is terrible. It tastes like it's tangy. It's overpowering, and I hate it. I don't know why it is so offensive for you to say that. OK, so two points on the steak. I've always heard that it is super rude to go to like a nice steak house and ask for sauce, like if the steak is prepared properly, you don't need sauce. I was raised that way like not not to ask for sauce because it is offensive to the chef. Outside of that, I have always had a one on steak and Heinz, 57 on steak at home and grew up on A-1. Absolutely love A1 steak sauce, and the whole reason that I love it is her the tanginess of the sauce. Really? Yeah, I hated it. I was like, I don't love this and I feel like I've had. And I'm weird about Outback because like I do like their steak, but it feels like, is it frozen? Like, I don't know if it's like a frozen situationally. But they like if you order to go or when you're at the restaurant, they ask, like, do you want like a buttered garlic sauce? Do you want this kind of sauce, that kind of sauce? And those types of sauces are good, and I like them and they don't bother me. But the A1 sauce I felt like was so disgusting, so I needed to share that with you. I need to know if there is anyone on this podcast that feels that listens to this podcast that feels the same way as I did because I hated it. Wait, have you ever tried Heinz 57? No, I've never tried that. OK. You need to try Heinz 57 and tell me if you like it on steak better than A1. Next, we'll look at the bottle. I thought Heinz, 57, was ketchup. I don't think that's what it is. Or maybe that's just Heinz Heinz. I'm Googling Heinz fifty seven. I know people hate when we Google, but like this just came up. I don't know what you want me to do about it. No, I've never even seen this bottle in my life. Yeah. Heinz, 57, it says it's a blend. It's a secret blend, a secret blend of premium herbs and spices that has made Heinz 57 sauce an American favorite for over 90 years, with a unique, rich flavor equaled by unequalled by any other steak sauce. No wonder Heinz, 57, served as America's great and America's greatest steakhouses. So interesting you need to do that by 50, but also says in a bottle like zest or something like that. So I wonder if you're going to have the same thoughts as you do with the A1. Just try it in what is now speaking of being able to read rooms. Just wanted to address something really, really quick. I was debating whether I was going to address this or not and decided that I was going to. There was a clickbait article that was circulating that came to mind tension that involved a disturbing image of one of my family members during what was and is already a difficult time. It was a picture of a hospital bed with my mom on it, while I have been in this industry for what feels like a very long time and understand that these things are common, making fun of a very serious situation. To me, it's both sickening and disgusting, and this is just a little public service announcement for really everybody, not just one person in particular being mindful of what you're posting. That even includes the public responsibility that you hold if you are a public figure and have someone posting for you. I have seen this happen to other people before. I have seen clickbait things about you. Clickbait things about my family and clickbait. Things about other people. Miscarriages, pregnancies. I just think that if you're having other people post for you on your social media, you should be mindful of what they're posting because you do hold a responsibility. If someone else is posting for you, you're equally responsible because your name is behind that. So that's all I really want to say on that. Outside of that, I did want to answer this question from the Facebook group because we got it last week, and I have a really hard time with this at home because I just have one. And so it's easier for me to do pretty much everything, and I know that it's doing a disservice to my child and I am very well aware of that. Right. But the question was what chores do your seven year old and four year olds do? And do you have a reward system thanks or any ideas? And I know you're big on like charts and stuff at your house. I don't know if you still do like chore charts or whatever. I'm really, really bad at this. Like, I'm not a person to be giving advice on frickin chores. So for me now we do have the torture on the fridge, so that's something that we still do. I have not been rewarding my kids for chores and I've gone back and forth with this and we've tried different things. But ultimately, I have just come to the realization that one, if I wasn't being consistent in like the rewards because sometimes you know, they would do their chores and they would forget to get their reward, I'd forget to offer it, or they would forget to do their tours, and it just was too much. So now they they just know to come home and check the list. I don't do rewards for chores. I'm not doing rewards. These are things that they need to do regardless and contributing to the household. I don't overdo it if they want to do something that goes above and beyond. That's a different conversation, and that would be probably in, you know, they're going to do this because they want something. They want to work for something. They want to earn something but regular everyday chores. Like I told Isaac yesterday because he was absent from the stomach bug. I think like last week or two weeks ago and some of his assignments were late because he was absent, so he was able to make them up. And I told him and I said, You know, these are things that I said, what were what would you do if this was a job? Like, what would you do if this was your working job? And he's like, But it's not. And I said, here's the thing the thing about chores getting good grades, personal hygiene, all of those things are things that are going to follow you out throughout your life. What you do now is how you're going to do things as an adult. And I said so for that reason, you know, that's why I get on to you guys about the chores, about the good grades, about everything. Because if this was real life, you have to take care of yourself and know how to do these things. I'm not doing a reward system. I think little kids like lux his age. He wanted me to show him how to vacuum his room yesterday. And so we got the handheld, not the handheld, the cordless shark a couple of weeks ago. And it's light enough for him to use that. He wanted me to show him cool. I'm happy to show you next time you can do it yourself, and I'm not rewarding you for that because I mean, unless you want like, I think Lux's age, maybe seven year old, because I forget Lincoln. I don't remember how Lincoln was with chores at seven. They like little s**t like stickers. Adding a star to their little chart. But outside of that, I'm not doing rewards now, so I agree with you on if your child is doing a chore that is contributing to the household. That would not be like an above and beyond thing. And I'm talking about like, Hey, you take a water bottle to your room every night for bed. If you have water bottles in your room, you should be bringing into the trash can. I shouldn't be rewarding you for bringing something the trash can that you know to just bring the trash can. Exactly. Putting your clothes in a hamper so that I don't have to pay. Pick up your dusty drawers like, thank you very much, like a normal thing that you should be doing. Jackson is not good about. He's gotten much better about like I have this rule because he used to go in and like, destroy everything. So he would he would pull something out and he would play with that for a little while. Then it would be in one corner, and then he got bored of that. Then he would go to something else like that doesn't work anymore. If you get something out, you only get it out if you plan to play with it. And if you are not going to play with it, then you put it back before you get something else out. Because I'm not playing Molly made like all day for you, so that's what we're not going to do. He he's gotten better as he's gotten older, and I don't really have to ask as much. But I did go through a phase where I had to ask about everything and I was like, Something's not clicking. Like, Why is this just not a normal common sense thing that you know to do, but kids? I swear. I think that they try to get away with as much as you allow them to get away with. And until you went for something, then they're not going to do it. Lincoln's the worst. I'd probably have talked about this before. I'm here, but he before laundry gets done, he has to go through his entire hamper and put everything right side out. And I keep trying to tell him, if you put it right side out, as soon as you take it off, you don't have to do them before you go to your dad's every week or you don't have to do them, you know, during the week, you just do it when you take them off like s**t like that. I'm like, What you do now is going to be carried with you for the rest of your life. I don't want you to have to worry like be frustrated as a college student or when you're an adult and you're trying to do laundry and you're washing your s**t inside out, I just can't. And I think with boys, it's just harder in general, like they just it doesn't click like he even texted me last week before he went to his dad's and was like, Do I have to do my clothes? And I said, Absolutely, you do. And he said, But I don't need I don't need clothes here when I'm at my dad's. I said, But you need clean clothes when you come home and I'm not doing this anymore. You're nine. You're fully capable of putting your clothes right side out, OK? Other moms are going to relate to this. When I say this, how many of your kids bring? Because again, it's only Jackson and I in here. So I have two laundry baskets like darks and then colored. Jackson will bring his clothes and act like he's done something when he brings a pair of pants or shorts with his skid mark underwear like still attached into the thing. And I'm like, That's not my job. Like, I didn't sign up to pull apart your underwear from your pants or shorts for the rest of my life. Like, that's not when I decided to become a mother. That was not what I signed up for. That wasn't in the job description. Now that's like one of my girlfriends. Years ago, we were talking about, you know, she was on the fence about having more kids and her her final decision about not having more kids was, I do not want to wipe asses and brush teeth for another six years. Oh my God. Because her son was six at the time and I was like, Wow, that makes a lot of sense. I completely understand. Wait, last thing on the laundry and then we got to move on. I do wash underwear inside out. I mean, that makes sense, I guess, right? Because you want the outside, you want the the inside parts to be the most clean, so you put them out. That makes sense. Yeah, I do do that. So this year, we've got goals, factors here to help you achieve each and every one of them. I have been trying to tackle my diet for some time now, so you guys can skip the grocery store, skip the shopping, the prepping, the cleaning up because Factor's fresh and never frozen meals are ready in just two minutes. So all you have to do is eat and enjoy. 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I'm going to give an overall description. If a woman decides to keep a baby with all the contraceptives out there, that a man should have the right to forfeit all financial obligations. This me. I was so pissed off when I even commented because yes, there are conscious contraceptives for women, but men have the ability to put a condom on. Men have the ability to pull out. Men have the ability to refrain from sex, and it is just as much a man's responsibility when he's choosing to have sex with somebody, knowing the consequences and knowing that contraceptives can fail. So when you are laying down with a woman, if she decides to keep a baby, you both know the risks. You both know that there are contraceptives out there and a man is just as responsible. Like, I'm sorry, but if you're that worried about contraceptives and you know, maybe that feeling or anything like that wear a condom and pull out, do both. Yeah. Well, I 100 percent agree with you on all fronts of this, and I imagine it. This probably happens way more than we would think. You cosigned this decision when you decided to have sex with someone and not protect yourself from getting in that situation. So if you don't want that situation to happen and simply protect yourself from being required to financially support a child that you claim that you didn't want. I'm just infuriated me when I saw and I want to like, read some of the comments because on that video because I cannot be the only one that felt infuriated, like there's just no way. And then simple as this, if you don't want an obligation, don't give yourself one. Well, and that's my biggest thing is like, why are you even taking the risk if you feel like a woman should be solely like, why are you putting that in a woman's hands if you don't trust them enough to? I don't know. If you can't trust yourself enough, I guess, to take care of a child. Why are you putting that decision on a woman? Because you and I just felt like it was very misogynistic also. That was the other part of it that really pissed me off. I was just like the audacity for men to have this conversation on in public and really, like, say, these thoughts out loud really infuriated me. I want to read some of the comments because there was one that was like, This is so misogynistic. It's like, Oh, if we if we send child support, we don't have to pay for our kids. Like, what have you heard that like, well, OK, this is what I commented, and this was on. This was like two weeks ago. I said, a man can simply choose not to have sex where protection and or pull out. This is so this is a no for me. Someone says I wish it was that simple because I have seen cases where the guy verbally said he wanted the baby, and once it came, he left. Someone else says, I feel this doesn't take in the single moms who do raise the kids alone with no fight, no financial support. I want to know the woman who is thinking like this when she is deciding about a child that she did not get pregnant with herself. What does that mean? Don't. Oh, like, I guess, because she didn't impregnate herself. Somebody else did. So like, it wasn't just a one, you know, one sided thing. I'm shocked. But three women in these comments and that they completely agree, which I think is complete bulls**t because their perspective on that is going to be they knew what they were signing up for when they lay down with the person. So don't get mad if you get pregnant when it was almost a choice, I'm sure that's going to be the argument. At the same time, it takes two people to tango, so that doesn't fly for me. Someone says I agree, but also the dude can just as easily wrap his little package up too, which is exactly how I feel like. I just don't understand how this is solely contract. Is the birth certificate. Don't sign it. No legal custody. That's actually not how it works. I don't think so. I think you can still be obligated to pay child support, even if you're not on the birth certificate. They just have to prove paternity. Yeah, they just have to prove paternity. That's it. So yeah. And then then other talk I had on here was one that Kristen sent me, and she just sent it to me like randomly. And I put it on here because I was like, What the actual f**k? It was a chick talk about. There are actually some stage that you are legally obligated to take care of your elderly parents. You're going to hate what I'm about to say, but your parents took care of you. I think that it should be by circumstance. So if your parents raised you, then? In my opinion, you have an obligation to your parents to take care of them. Really see, but I don't think maybe I just don't think that way because I didn't ask to be here, I didn't ask to be born. And further, I asked my mom why she didn't get an abortion because she had no business having me. And so for me, it's like whether you were raised really well or not. I don't think that we asked to be here. So why should we be obligated to? And what happens if a what happens if my mom is, say, my mom raised me, right? Like, say, my mom was the picture perfect mom, white pick, white picket fence, whatever the case may be. What if she lived across the country? I'm not going to uproot my life to go take care of her. She made that choice. No, I think again, like, what are the circumstances that surround this? Because, you know, my requirement would be if I'm going to take care of you, then you're going to have to like, move in with me. I'm not going to uproot my life to do that, but I will take care of you. I also have a super soft spot for the elderly. And so seeing like my parents old, I'm sure that's in a break my heart whenever they do get old. But my parents are young as f**k right now. I mean, like 50, 50 and 54, so they're still pretty young and kicking it in like fine. But I would totally take care of them or take care of my grandmother if they needed the help. I absolutely would do that. I mean, I think this also varies by situation so I can wipe theirs. Like if my grandparents were still with me and they needed caretaking, I would hands down without a f**king doubt be there for every f**king bell ring. Like, if like, I would have done anything to help bring every like if they ring the bell, I'd f**king be there, you know what I mean? Like, there are people in my family who I absolutely would, but that would be more so out of love and out of my choice. I think it more so pisses me off because it feels like it's like in these states, it's an obligation. I do not. I know that there are people who have children to specifically take care of them when they're old. I don't expect my kids to take care of me when I'm old. In fact, I hope that I don't ever become a burden to them in any way, shape or form, or they even have to consider whether or not they should move me in with them or something. I hope that I am long gone before. Like, I hope the universe takes me and just, you know, sends me to the ocean. And, you know, my kids will have to worry about that. I don't ever want them to feel like, well, she wiped my ass, so I have to wipe hers. Like, I would be actually mortified if my kids OK, well, my dad has that same mentality of everything, like pretty much verbatim what you just said, adding the fact that he doesn't talk about the universe. He's like, I hope God calls me home. But same right. Same calls process. Mm hmm. I think that's good and great in theory until you become an old person and you realize that like you're you're not ready to like, pass away. And as you get older, I think your mindset probably will change. You're saying that now because nobody needs to take care of you because you're not like in a place of need. But I think that that probably does change over time. But then there are probably some people that are like you. So Isaac is my oldest, and I know that people love him and think he's the sweetest thing ever. And he really is like, he does have a heart of gold. However, Isaac does not like gross things like he's very type a when it comes to. He does not want to see drool. He doesn't want to see poop. He doesn't want to. Nothing if there's sticky hands, dirt on your face, like if Crete has like a booger or like snot and I didn't wipe it yet. Like. Isaac does not like babies, he's not a baby person, he doesn't like to think grows. He doesn't like his foods to touch. He doesn't like spit or drool. He would not be capable of taking care of me as an elderly woman. That's number one. So him he would unintentionally probably neglect me. OK, like that's number one. Out. So we have established, I think now I only have one option, so I take my kids will be taken care of. Both of us will be in the friggin old folks home together like chocolate coffee combos, and they're going to be like, Shut up. Lincoln probably unintentionally. Forget about me, lux. I think he's my rider. I think he would one thousand percent take care of me, but I just don't want him to. And then Creed, I haven't figured out yet in terms of whether he likes some days. He loves the s**t out of me, and some days he could not be. He could not care less. Oh my God. Wait, I need to do a little follow up. I don't know if you remember this, but we talked about it last year. It was the Alec Baldwin situation with Gunn gun going on set. Do you remember that? Yes. So he has been charged with two counts of involuntary involuntary manslaughter and the death of Helena Hudgens on the film Santa Fe Country set in 2021, and that was according to the DEA. I remember we were talking about that, and if we thought that they were going to be charged or if it was going to be accidental or whatever, and he has been charged, I kind of have mixed feelings on it. Me too. On one hand, someone lost their life and then on the other hand, it was legitimately an accident. It was a freak accident. And I know that people have been like, I know of cases where people get charged with involuntary manslaughter for things like DUI, drinking under the driving, under the influence and things like that. So this one was a literal freak accident. It wasn't like, well, but then it was loaded. The gun was loaded. So then it's like on that end, it is negligence, like somebody was responsible for loading it. So I don't know. I have mixed feelings on it. And that's really sad. I wonder why it took three two years to get a verdict, to get to get convicted. Well, he's just been charged. Oh, he's been charged. OK? He has a big yeah. OK, so that's how I will be interested to see how all the details of that actually do play out and why he was charged with that because there has to be a legitimate reason coming down from the D.A.. Like, there's a legitimate reason as to why they charged him. I want to do this from the Facebook group, and I want to know your thoughts on it, says thoughts on current partner of six years keeping pictures of ex wife on Facebook. The pictures are of them kissing, laying in bed on the beach, et cetera. They are at least eight year old pictures, so they aren't super new, but there is a good amount of them. I have mentioned something about them before and he blew it off like he didn't pay attention to them, so I just let it go. They have a child together in the pics were before this and they divorced shortly after the baby was born. But we have to see this person often, and I just think it's weird. I also want to add that he often checks his memories and is aware of them being there. I recently brought it up and asked if he'd ever consider just on tagging himself as they are mostly ones, she posted. He blew up and called me crazy and said it will take too much time to do. It was hurtful and I feel crazy. I just want to think he's right, but I have always had a feeling he still had a thing for her and I'm so conflicted. Any advice is welcome. Thank you in advance. Well, again, I'm conflicted in my feelings on this because I mean, I've been in a few relationships after my divorce and I haven't deleted my wedding album or any of the pictures like, you know how if you go to like your profile pictures album, it's like all the profile pictures you've ever had. Yep, I like I have ones with me and Hobie in there. I know that he's removed the matching tattoo that we had. I know that he's removed pictures. I know that he. And it doesn't. It doesn't matter to me. Like, I don't care, obviously was hurt. I was hurt at the time because I still felt like, OK, yeah, we're not together anymore, but we still had that. But now I'm in a place where it's just like, I don't care. It's like out of sight, out of mind. But also, I'm not going to go out of my way to delete them. So in this particular situation, I feel like what makes this situation a little sticky is that she's always had an inkling that he still had feelings for her. So then why? Did you why did you marry him? I think if if there wasn't that portion of it, I think it doesn't matter. But but I she has that feeling then, you know, that's an issue. If if you have that feeling, though, then I feel like if you have that much foresight going into the situation, then that should have been things that you addressed ahead of marrying this person or, you know, continuing their relationship, whatever it is, she said, current partner of six years. OK, so that's that for me, right off the bat like that is the reason why I won't date someone with kids is because they're going to go back to their baby mom in some way, shape or form. And I'm not going to f**king like it and I'm not going to live with that. So that applying that same thought process to this is if you're with somebody for six years and you feel like he still has a thing for his ex, you need to get the f**k out because your gut, your gut feeling is never wrong. It is never wrong. Also just want to say if you've addressed this with him and it wasn't a big deal to him, but it was a big deal to you. If he didn't have underlying feelings there, he would have just removed all of the staff knowing that it was causing conflict between you and him. There's a reason that he's leaving that stuff there and coming up with excuses as to why he doesn't want to delete them. Chances are he probably does still have feelings for his ex, whether she was ex wife, baby momma. I forget whatever it said, but there's definitely a reason that he's holding on to those memories. So I would just be very cautious, proceeding forward and forward, and furthermore, just checking the memories and things like that when I first met Elijah. The only real fight we ever got into was because we had established our relationship in the beginning, and his ex-wife called and I was literally like, Why does she even still have access to? I mean, it was through Facebook Messenger, so like options were removed. But when I was like, how does she even still have access like in my head because I'm so hyper aware of things like that? I was like, Why does she still have access to you? I didn't even have to tell her. I didn't even have to tell him to block her, and he did it without just because I was like, The fact that she still has access is for me is was a red flag. And so, you know, they don't have kids together. So, you know, I didn't even have to say, you need to block her. He already did it. So if that is something you basically this woman who wrote into our Facebook, this will be the last thing I say is you have to decide if that's a deal breaker for you or not. We've gone over this one hundred and one times. There's a difference between red flags and deal breakers or flaws and red flags, and you need to decide if this is going to because if you're going to harp on it, on harp on it and harp on it and he's not changing, you either have to stay and stay quiet or you need to get out of the relationship. You can't decide that you're going to keep bringing it up for the rest of your relationship, especially if you're six, six years in. But we can move on from my personal experience. I'm going to say she needs to move on. There is a reason that he is not deleting it. There is a reason that she feels like he still has feelings for his baby mama. There is a reason for all of that. There's also a reason that she wrote into this podcast because it bothered her that much so totally. We stand with you, girlfriend. We do. OK, let's do foul play. Foul play. Hey, ladies, I have a PSA that I was unaware of. So I need to pass it on to others. Don't make this mistake. I was sitting on the throne taking up and out of nowhere I sneezed. It immediately burned and was so painful to finish, said Pee. Surprisingly, this has never happened to me before, even though I had insane allergies and sneezes all the time. So every time I peed after that, it was unbearable. Burning pain and the pain would go up to my stomach until a few minutes after leaving the restroom. I thought it would go away after a few days, but by day five I was really starting to panic that I tore my urethra. I had an appointment. Yeah, that's wild. I had an appointment with my OB already scheduled, so I mentioned it to him and he was not concerned. Thank the good Lord. It started to subside. By day eight, I was finally peeing again. So if you can help it, do not sneeze while peeing the force it sends out the urethra is no joke. I do not recommend love the podcast and love the podcast. It's the one I make sure to listen to every week. Oh my god, that's awful. First off, first off, thank you for listening every week to our bulls**t because like that means a lot. Anybody that you really that you're a trooper. Secondly, if I am, look at me when I tell you this, if I started peeing, I don't care if there was like a sneeze associated, but I started peeing and it was burning and. Immediately, I would become Web d for myself. And I would come up with like the most awful things that it could possibly be like outrageously s t i cancer, you name it, like I would come up with it and would not sleep until I actually got to go to the doctor to find out what was going on. Because I am, I don't want to call myself a hypochondriac, but like a hypochondriac. Oh, 100 percent. If that happened to me, I would be like, Oh my God, did I blow out my urethra? Like, what is it? Did I did my urethra detach from my bladder? Like what is going on here? That's out there. Who sneeze is that hard? Like, you are sneezing so hard that you blew out your urethra? I don't even know how to say that word, but like whatever. There's some power honey that is some power that you must be. You were really feeling the maladies that you're not. OK? OK. Next, I'll play. My husband and I are both military, so I went home with him to meet his family for the first time while we were dating. We went out one night with one of his closest friends and we're bar hopping. My husband went to grab another drink and I was sitting at a table with his friend. Different was asking me questions, trying to get to know me and ask, Do you like to be hit during sex? Oh, very casual. Weird, right? And as he is asking, my husband sits down waiting for an answer. I tell him that I like it. Rough and hitting can be fun. Fast forward to the next day. We have stayed the whole trip with his very Catholic mom and not allowed to sleep in the same room because they don't want us having sex. So we do what any normal couple would do and hook up in the bathroom when she is left for work. Well, very normal. That's exactly what everyone else will do, definitely. But I am bent over the sink when all of the sudden my ear is ringing. This man tried to hit me sexually from behind and cupped hand and slapped me in the ear. It was so painful, unexpected and my ear was ringing for hours. I asked him why he did that, and he told me it was because I said I liked it. We have worked on things and they're better now. That was five years ago and it is hilarious. Looking back, we got married a year later. First off, motherf**ker tries to hit me in the era, makes my earring for multiple hours. Like, never again. No, but it's the we've worked things out like that must have caused some serious trauma in the relationship because he said, We've work things out. I'm f**king dead. OK, but do we think like that? It's weird that one of your man's closest friends would be asking you questions about like, yes, immediately. I was like, That's not OK, but it's like a very targeted question. I like casual, right? It's like, Do you like being hit during sex? Like, this is my thought. His friend had a conversation with him and was like, Hey, can you ask her? Does she like to be hit during sex? Like, that's just so weird. Like, who does that? If you're an adult and you have to send your friends to ask your future wife sexual questions like that, should you really be getting married? Because I don't want to be with anyone and I can't just be open with about my sexual preferences and kinks and things like that. First of all, you shouldn't even be having sex if you can't ask questions like that. So right? That's number one. Number two, I just want to say Will's parents aren't Catholic, and neither are mine. But with that being said, I definitely relate to not sleeping together during trips. We went on this or like having sex. No, no, no, no. Like, we weren't allowed to sleep together. We went on a beach trip when we were in college and I was with Will's parents and my dad, specifically Caldwell's parents, and was like, I just need to make sure, like Lindsay sleeping in her own room and Will's parents were like, Yeah, like, we're going to be sure of that. Like all these things like Will's mom exactly on the same page, whatever so Will makes his little bed on the couch. And then when his parents go to bed, he like creeps into my bedroom and he sleeps with me. And then in the morning, he acts like he was sleeping at the end of my bed, like the opposite way because he heard his parents coming and he's like, Oh, I'm just going to, like, act like, I'm sleeping this way. And it's like, first of all, everybody knows we're f**king so like, why is this a secret? They don't want to believe it. They knew, but they don't want to believe it. On that trip, we had sex in that room. We had sex in the pool and sex in that room. Yeah, so so y'all were getting it in, whether they liked it or not. We absolutely honey, we absolutely or we were f**king like rabbits back in those days. Can't keep your hands off each other. Before we go, I saw this thing that was it, said things to remember. Tomorrow is a new day. Making mistakes is part of life. Saying no is OK. Not everyone has to like you. Beauty and strength come from within. And on that note, Kitty is I am going to go and try to get my office together and I have a meeting. If you guys have not followed us on at Coffee Combos podcast on Instagram, make sure you follow us there. If you have not subscribed to the Kitty Gang Telegram app, there some stuff that's been dropped in there in the last week. 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CC399: On this month's bonus episode.. Lindsie is saying very suspicious things and one of Kail's kids unexpectedly drops a swear word during the Superbowl watch party. Kail addresses the speculations as to why we stopped hearing from Kristen all of a sudden. Because we recorded before Valentine's Day, Lindsie and Kail share their plans for Valentine's. Lastly, someone asks AITA in the Facebook group and today's Foul Play has the marriage relationship we all strive for.

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01:16:39 2/17/2025

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01:15:42 2/13/2025

CC397: Kail and Lindsie are ready for this week to be over. Kail gives an update on her boob job and how she's been navigating co-parenting scheduling conflicts. Lindsie has ALSO been having co-parenting problems, and speaks on the Disney Dad theory that one parent always gets to be the fun parent while the other does not. A listener's daughter doesn't like swearing, and today's Foul Play makes us glad we're not school bus drivers.

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CC396: Lindsie is having co-parenting issues that is on the verge of escalating, which Kail can relate to. Kail talks about the faux coochie emergency, their thoughts on the Blake Baldoni scandal, and is unconditional love a good thing? A listener asks a super sus question that has Kail and Lindsie concerned about the listener's relationship.

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01:20:34 1/30/2025

CC395: On this month's bonus episode... Lindsie and Kail ask their children to do as they say, and not as they do. Kail talks about new tax breaks and her stance on them as someone who came from poverty. Lindsie goes through her recent Instagram stories that had Kail and Elijah laughing in their beds the night before. Kail explains to Lindsie a new term, but not a new concept, called future faking. Listeners ask, how long should an engagement should last? And today's Foul Play teaches us about Colposcopy..

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01:25:12 1/27/2025

CC394: Lindsie gives an update on a beloved family pet and Kail plans to stay on RedNote forever. I'm sure many parents can relate to this article on Parental mental load, just as Kail and Lindsie have. They give their experiences and thoughts on how to deal with different issues. Lastly, we have listener questions and a Foul Play that has our coochies cringing. 

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01:12:16 1/23/2025

CC393: Lindsie and Kail are all in for a potential return of Spencer Pratt and Heidi Montag - aka Speidi. Both of them double down on their opinions on last week's topic about spending separate time with OG family members. News of insurance companies dropping fire coverage in California months before the devasting fires has Kail and Lindsie feeling some type of way... And this Tiktok ban isn't helping. A listener asks if they should tell their BFF that they don't like their husband... Oof, we've all been there! 

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01:15:08 1/16/2025

CC392: Kail and Lindsie had a ROUGH holiday break that included therapy, surgery and tears. We start the episode with high emotions! Kail tries to figure out Lindsie's sibling dynamic on BOTH sides. Does anyone else struggle with parenting during their coparent's time? A listener asks if it's weird that their spouse's family is planning a family outing without the spouses and children?

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01:12:32 1/9/2025

CC391: Lindsie and Kail struggle with the trend of butterfly skirts being too short for certain ages. We are big supporters of four day work weeks and Kail explains how it would make a real difference in some familial situations. Lindsie watched the Lisa Frank docu-series on Amazon Prime and shares all the crazy details with Kail. One of today's Foul Plays is a reminder to Kail that she refuses to live with dementia.  

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01:09:43 1/2/2025

CC390: For the LAST episode of 2024 let us revisit the FIRST episode of 2024...

Lindsie recaps her hectic last days of 2023 and Kail shares her word of the year. Kail shares the unexpected message she received from her mom, and how in the same day she got in touch with her sister. Lindsie has some thoughts about Cher asking for conservatorship over her son and talks about the time her brother Kyle was under Todd's legal guardianship as an adult. A listener asks for advice on their 18 year-old daughter wanting to move out under objectionable circumstances, and for Foul Play someone gets a vasectomy scare.

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CC400: To the surprise of no one, Lindsie reads that oatmeal is the healthiest breakfast food for you.. But Kail will not be participating in that. What Kail IS interested in participating in is babysitting swaps with BFFs or family members after reading about another mom's experience with this hack. A listener shares a situation that many may relate to when it comes to friendship dynamics changing during pregnancies and after birth. Kail explains how she also experienced a sense of loneliness throughout her pregnancies and how they differed. Lindsie talks about her struggle when she first let Jackson see her cry and lose her cool. Today's Foul Play is giving foul but in a good way!

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CC399: On this month's bonus episode.. Lindsie is saying very suspicious things and one of Kail's kids unexpectedly drops a swear word during the Superbowl watch party. Kail addresses the speculations as to why we stopped hearing from Kristen all of a sudden. Because we recorded before Valentine's Day, Lindsie and Kail share their plans for Valentine's. Lastly, someone asks AITA in the Facebook group and today's Foul Play has the marriage relationship we all strive for.

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CC398: Kail and Lindsie give their experiences with giving and receiving the silent treatment but are flabbergasted at the idea of anyone doing it to their children. Are you a LawnMower parent? Today we learn a new parenting term that Lindsie might be a part of and Kail explains how she wants self sufficient kids. And speaking of kids, another parenting article mentions the importance of teens balancing their family time which resonates with Kail. News of a lady sending fart videos to her boyfriend's ex is so unhinged and we are NOT here for it.

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01:15:42 2/13/2025

CC397: Kail and Lindsie are ready for this week to be over. Kail gives an update on her boob job and how she's been navigating co-parenting scheduling conflicts. Lindsie has ALSO been having co-parenting problems, and speaks on the Disney Dad theory that one parent always gets to be the fun parent while the other does not. A listener's daughter doesn't like swearing, and today's Foul Play makes us glad we're not school bus drivers.

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01:06:55 2/6/2025

CC396: Lindsie is having co-parenting issues that is on the verge of escalating, which Kail can relate to. Kail talks about the faux coochie emergency, their thoughts on the Blake Baldoni scandal, and is unconditional love a good thing? A listener asks a super sus question that has Kail and Lindsie concerned about the listener's relationship.

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