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So we supposed to start the podcast? Ready? 123. Patriots, gaytriots, patriots. Welcome to the rebellion. We will not pre surrender. We have a bird. We have a Siberian husky or 2. 2. Pumps, what have you had it with? Okay. What I've had it with is places that only take cash at the end of 202024. Are you f**king kidding me? I never have cash. So I go in this restaurant downtown, I mean, in in it's a dump. Okay? It's a dump truck. I f**king love it. It's heart attack on a plate food. Hadn't had it in years, and I thought I'm just gonna bounce in there and get me a hot dog. So I go in. I am, like, so fired up about it. You wanna get a hot dog? Go and get a hot dog. It's this little tiny wiener. I mean, it's boiling in water. They pull it out, I'm super excited about it. I get up there and she's like, I don't think it was like $3. I didn't have $3. I have no cash. I didn't get my hot dog. So I'm like, everybody needs to be completely 100%. It you take both or you take card for sure. It just feels like antiquated, and this place, to be fair, is antiquated. No teeny weeny for pumps. I did not get the only teeny weeny that I enjoy. I had to leave. She was like, well, there's an a team around the corner, and by then, I'm just f**king furious. I'm just like, this is a prick tease. I'm mad. I'm not coming back. Will you ever go back? Well, of course, I will because I love these hot dogs, but I will make sure I go to the ATM first. I just I just was like, that is criminal to have an cash only place these days. It's frustrating. It it is it's so frustrating. I got frustrated the other day that somebody didn't take Apple Pay because I had my purse in the car locked everything in there and I just wanted to run-in and I just brought my phone only. They don't take apple pay. So the cash thing is just so beyond comprehension. Nonetheless. Alright, let me tell you what I've had with. I've had it with the notion that a lot of people have, that if we speak about something to our lives that is petty, frivolous, 1st world, that the response can always be, you ladies need to go live in a third world country to get some perspective. Right. Or there are people starving in Africa that you're not allowed to have any suffering that is personal to your life because there is greater suffering out in the world. It drives me insane. And, you know, we don't talk about this a lot. We have a book coming out where we tell it. We have suffered. Right. We've been broke. We've been through all of that s**t. We're not in that era anymore. We're in the petty grievance era, and maybe not all of our grievances are entirely relatable, but here's the thing, this is not a serious podcast. This is for fun, And I just can't take that there are people out there that monitor, like they're just like the hall monitors of the Internet. And they monitor everybody's, like if you're not liberal enough, or you're too center, and there's just all this hyper correcting. You 2 need to go live in a 3rd world country. It's like, you know what? f**k off. We don't live in a 3rd world country, and we get pissed about stupid s**t, and we still try to fight the good fight at the same time, and I've just completely had it with that. Yeah. And that talk about antiquated. I remember people said that when I would like, there are children starving in Africa that don't, you know, that they don't have to worry about x y z, blah blah blah. Okay. That's that's true, but that's not what we're talking about right now. I mean, and it's also such a Debbie Downer. You know, like, whatever if anybody says some some complaint that they have, that we always have to say, well, in Africa or in, you know, Southeast Asia or in India, these horrible human rights violations are occurring. Therefore, every grievance that you have is completely invalidated. Now, in saying this, are there people that are so breathtakingly out of touch that it's annoying? Yes. Yes. Could Pumps and I, at times, be those people? Yes. 100%, yes. But I just I feel like there is this micromanaging that is going on the World Wide Web, about, like, all of the people, particularly on the left, tend to try to out liberal each other, correct each other all the time, and you go over to the right, and it's fleabag, roach motel, Parasite City. There are not enough insecticides that could diffuse that situation, and it's they just pile on top of each other. It's crazy. Right. Can we have some camaraderie if we agree 70% of the time? Can we just not have to hyper correct each other all the time nonstop? It drives me crazy. No. I think that's a great that's a great point. And people I mean, I for me, a lot of it goes back to, like, if you have enough time to correct us on this, why aren't you doing something better than listening to us? Like, why aren't you solving moral time for? Well, and then somebody said the other day, I hate that you all have commercials. And I'm like, do you think we're up here just doing this as a community service? I mean, seriously, it's just there's this micromanaging approach to where people now that we have a degree of separation where we communicate with one another. Mhmm. It's not face to face where people just none of this stuff really bothers me. It's just the hyper correction that you see. Remove it from our podcast. Like, here's how low the bar is for me right now. If you don't like Trump, I'm cool. That's it. That's it. We can disagree on nuances of all sorts of things after that. But if you don't like Trump and didn't vote for him, we're good. Right. It kinda goes back to when we first started the podcast when people would say, well, don't talk about politics, or don't talk about this, or don't talk about that. Here's the deal. Our names are on it. It's our podcast. We can talk about whatever the f**k we want. Brenda, if you don't like it, start your own podcast. Right. Like, those are your options. Like, we don't take direction from Brenda in Ohio, but thank you for playing. I mean, like, shut the f**k up. Yeah. I don't like email, you know, Rachel Maddow and say, Rachel, I need you to talk about this more. You know why I don't Stop advertising, Rachel. So you don't need commercials. Quit getting a paycheck, Rachel. Right. It's just the whole thing is just, like, shut up. Yeah. Shut up. Agree. Welcome to I've Had It. I'm Jennifer. I'm Angie. She's the Siberian husky of podcasting. Katerina, what's going on in the world wide web? We're just inching so close to 12 k reviews. Excellent. And I'm gonna read you 2 of them. This one's 5 stars from Sunny. And she writes, I needed you both right when I found you. Cacaw, clap. I think your lighting guy, pumps, might be looking for a reason to come over. You light up my life. So why wouldn't you be lighting up someone else's? I'm glad she brought up the lighting guy because I went to, pumps his house yesterday and I hadn't been out there in quite some time. I hadn't seen the christmas light installation. But as I left your house, I noticed that he had a little sign advertisement in your yard marking his territory that it was, in fact, his work. Right. He does. That's absolutely right. Have you had any communication with him since the Christmas lights are blinking out? No. Now that they're fixed, there has been no communication. I thought I would start on Christmas Eve texting him about how I needed the lights off at 6 PM on Christmas day. I thought that I think you gotta go December 26th. You do? Yeah. I think you gotta go December 26th. I think you say, I will unplug them at 6 PM on Christmas day because I don't like to belabor celebrations. It's over. I would appreciate if you could have them all down by 6 PM on December 26th. I think you need to give him Christmas off. Okay. That seems fair. Yeah. Yeah. Alright. Who's next, Kylie? Okay. This one is 5 stars from Anthony, and he writes, listen. I'm an attention seeking gay man just like you 2. And I imagine you checking your review numbers is the equivalent of me looking at how many likes my last thirst trap got. But even I know when to stop whining about it and just realize my followers are lazy and refuse to show me the love I deserve. Please show these women some love and get them to 12,000 so we can move on already. Okay. Here's what's gonna happen. And I just wanna wanna know, once we get to 12,000, then it resets and we start a new goal and a whole new round of brow beating begins. Just infinite brow beating. What if what if each time Kylie went on, people had deleted their reviews and it just went down in number? Can you do that? I'm sure you can. You just planted a great idea. Right now it's gonna happen. Good job listeners. All right, let me have some news stories I want to share with everybody. I know that pumps is just gonna lose their mind over this bride surprises wedding guests with a morning 7 ks run to start the day with endorphins. Your thoughts. I f**king hate her. Nobody that isn't an avid runner wants to do that. Why would you do that? That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard a surprise 7 ks. That's a long time. Well, and that's a, that's like a sadistic. Kind of. I mean, that's like, hey, we're gonna start the day with a 7 k run. It's like I didn't I signed up to come to the wedding Right. And to be in your wedding, I didn't sign up for an exercise cla*s. Okay. How often have we talked about brides being narcissistic? I mean, the more I read about what's going on with brides, the more I think marriage should be outlawed just on the basis of these people cannot handle anything happening to them that's good. It's I just this is so gross. Everything about a bride that makes everything about her like, here's if I've said it once, I've said it 50,000,000 times. Nobody gives a s**t that you're a bride. They are coming because they like your parents, they are your friends, they do not give a f**k. They don't think you are special, they don't think you are the prettiest girl in the world, they don't think you are a princess, they don't look up every minute after their eyes open on the day of your wedding and say, oh my gosh, it's only 6 hours 42 minutes till I get to go sit in the world's most boring wedding with the world's dumbest music, and then I go to a dinner that's cold, obnoxious, and I have to talk to people I don't like. Nobody's dying for that. Nobody. Alright. Let me ask you this. I remember there was a time back in our early friendship before your marriage and finances blew up. Right. And you had told me, oh, yes. My ex husband and I, at the time, he was your husband. So you were like, my husband and I, you know, just put some money in the kids' college accounts, and we also set up an account for the expenses for Emily's wedding. Right. I think at the time, Emily was 4. Right. So would you say, historically, you're a part of this problem or part of the solution? Let me just tell you. The reason I'm so passionate about hating brides is because I myself was the worst offender. Never once thought about the marriage. The guess. Never never even dawned on me what the guess felt like. I never even took into account their feelings. I paraded just an enormous, ridiculous, everything. Everything that I hate is because I've done it and it's so stupid, and I look back, and just the visceral reaction to how stupid I am Uh-huh. Probably takes into account this problem. I mean, parading 9 bridesmaids, 500 people walking down the aisle knowing it wasn't gonna work. I mean, what a disaster. Everything about that is I mean, you know how they used to like in those shows be like shame, shame, shame. That's what all the guests should have been doing. Shame. Shame. Shame. That's what we should start doing at weddings. The more obnoxious it is, you and I can be kind of in the back. We could just go, you know, there's that movie, the wedding crashers. We could revive it and we could go to weddings and we could, you know, get kind of get dolled up, sit in the back, and the more obnoxious I mean, when they get to, like, the 6th bridesmaid and the 3rd flower girl, and then the dog start trotting down the aisle, we start going, shame, shame, shame. Or, you know, we could also do a poster. We like, you know, like an auctioneer poster, just stand at the back or sit at the back and just like hold it up till somebody noticed, be on the video. Yeah. There's a lot of really, really particularly egregious behavior. What was your what is your stance now when your child when Emily was 3 or 4, I remember it struck me at the time. That's weird. Wow. Like, the last thing I'm thinking about is my my children getting married. Like, I wasn't even thinking that far. And so what what is your position on it now? If Emily were to get engaged and married, what advice would the more enlightened, more cynical, more f**k you pops have for her daughter? Okay. So here's the thing. I've kinda thought about that. Mhmm. And it is just gonna be really hard for me to even, like, act like I think it's a good idea to have a big wedding. Like, I just I'm like, go to the courthouse, get married, call it a day. Here's the thing. I know you well. I know you well. I think you will get sucked. I think I do. You will get sucked right into it. You think I'll fall back into those traps? Yes. I think old habits die hard. And I think this you had a, this brings me to my next new story. Hold on. I had one other thing kind of on this topic. Did I tell you so Emily's friends, the friends that are older than her, like 20 6 ish. They're starting to get married. This is a true story and I know you're gonna die because I died. 20 bridesmaids. 20. Why? 20. Why? I don't know. 20. That's just abuse. It's guest abuse. That's guest abuse. That is guest abuse, and it it and it's so over the top performative to say that you have 20 people with whom you were that close Right. Is just lying. It's it's an insult to the guests' intelligence, emotional intelligence. Because for me, if somebody says they have 20, 20, very close friends, very, very, very close friends, I think that's kind of a red flag. I don't think that's possible. Yeah. I just I mean, I about fell out of my chair when I heard 20. 20 friends. Yes. 20 friends. But close bridesmaid friends? No. I'm not buying that. I think then then I was told by somebody else that that's kind of the new trend is, like, 2018, something like that, bridesmaids. And I'm just saying as a public service announcement, in my experience, if you have that much emphasis on the bridesmaids, the flowers, the all that s**t, you're probably not thinking about the marriage, and that is a deep dark hole of despair that I fell down. Listener, this may come as a total shock to you, but Pumps and I have not always been this pulled together and rock solid. In fact, we used to be rather screwed up when you say Pumps. I would say damn near psychotic. Totally. And we have written a, cell phone expose. One could even say it's a manifesto. And the book title is Life is a Lazy Susan of s**t Sandwiches. In all sincerity, we share a lot of our struggles that led us to this grand stage where we can talk about petty grievances. You can click the link below in the show notes to preorder your copy now. 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These are just a few of the things that have become de rigueur for this sort of crowd who are taking tried and true kids party favorites and capitulating them into a stratospheric level of status symbol. I think I think all of this stuff, these weddings, the 20 bridesmaids, these birthday parties, everything was on steroids before social media, and now it is on crystal meth, intravenously injected crystal meth. That's how chaotic it is, which brought me back to, I remember the most over the top toddler birthday party I ever went to was for the aforementioned daughter of yours, Emily, where we had a clown, a petting zoo. Goat. I think it was a 2 tiered cake. I have no, I have no memory cake. I remember seeing a couple of tears. Yeah, there were goats. I remember ponies. Yeah, pony. The clown, the balloon animal, magician. Chester the clown. Mhmm. What else? The goats. It was a bouncy house. Oh, a bouncy house. Yeah. It was face painting. Yeah. Face painting. Yeah. It was ridiculous. It was stupid. That was completely born out of guilt for me. I was trying to appease my own guilt. I look back at that. It's like the wedding. That's the dumbest f**king thing. Strike that. It's one of the dumber things that I've done in my life. It's certainly not a top twenty or a top 100. Here's the deal. I have to tell you, my son, Dylan, and I had a great time at that party because I like animals. I like a petting zoo. I like balloon art. Yeah. I'm not I wasn't afraid of the clown, although he did terrify a lot of the children. Oh, yeah. I had a great time. Yeah. But does Dylan remember it? Well, hell no. He doesn't remember it. So I think that goes back to the party is not for the child. Right. Full stop. Right. Emily could give 2 s**ts. She doesn't remember. She was 3. The party was for me to make me feel better because I felt guilty that I had a brand new baby so close to her birthday. But in this instance, this is, I think, produced. These 6 figure parties are produced for social media. There's no question. And I have to go back to, if that's where your time and energy is going, these people that browbeat us about all the s**t, why aren't they browbeating them? Like, take all that free time on your hands. I'm sure they get it. Oh, that you do. Oh, there's no question. There's there is nobody is safe on the World Wide Web. Right. I mean, they are 1,000,000 percent getting in. I think it they're probably getting it so bad. It makes whatever we get look like child's play. Okay. And deservingly so. Alright. I believe today, we have, some voice memos we would like to hear from our listeners because we love and cherish our relationship with you. Okay. At first, we've got Sage. Hello, Jen Pumps, Kylie. Y'all, I've really had it with people making eye contact with me in the security line at the airport. Like, don't f**king look at me, dude. Look at your phone, look at the floor, close your eyes if you have to. Stop looking at my face. Stop making eye contact with me. Like, it's f**king annoying. Every 10 steps, we're gonna be face to face. Don't make this harder than it needs to be. And maybe just like a general, I've had it. Man, quit looking at me in general. Like, we're not about to have a meet cute. You're not gonna be staring at me like I'm a piece of me, and then I'm gonna be like, oh, let's fall in love. Oh, it's we fell in love at the airport. He just wouldn't stop staring at me. You know? We're married. It's never gonna happen. Stop looking at people. Close your eyes. I've had it. Thank you. I completely agree with this. I believe there are these awkward interactions where you catch people, like, and it's a it's the people that make this type of contact, which I'm gonna go ahead and call inappropriate eye contact. You're gonna go that far. Yeah. Abusive eye contact, personal space invasion eye contact, they continue to do it. I'll give you an example. I was recently playing, tennis in like a class type setting, and it's like a cardio tennis, and the instructor is telling us, okay, here's what we're gonna do, 4 people in here, 4 people here, rotate in, yak, blah. Across the net, I see this person staring at me, like really, really staring at me, and so I make eye contact and then I divert like a normal person does. Listen to the instructor for a second, look back. He's still staring, like completely staring me down. I look away again. It goes on for like 5 minutes, and I'm just like, why are you continuing to stare at me when I made the iDivert, the new iDivert? Do you think he had the hots for you? No. I mean, I Obviously. I mean, who doesn't? But, join get in line. But, it was it's so weird. And then you you see have you ever caught that? Like, I'll I'm like, why do they keep Why do they keep staring at me? Yeah. I do. And then I look behind me and think, is somebody behind me? Like, why are we not diverting? Yeah. I think I mean, first of all, I think Sage's presentation's an a plus. I mean, it's a perfect point. Like, if you are rotating in a line and you keep seeing the same person, I think there should be a sign at the airport when you walk in that says pretend you're invisible, pretend everybody else around you is invisible. This is somebody that obviously I'm just gonna say the guy at the club too. I think probably socially awkward. I mean, I just think if you're doing that repeatedly, you probably are socially awkward as a person. Like, you don't understand the social cues, so I just f**king love her. Okay. Up next, we've got Cody s. I Blue Eagle, Falcon, Hookers, whatever we're calling y'all these days, b***hes. I have something to vent about again. Christmas. Christmas gifts. Christmas group texts. Okay. So my fiance, his side of the family is f**king crazy when it comes to Christmas gifts. We have a shared list amongst the family of what these people want. Then there is 7 individual Then there is 7 individual group text messages going amongst these 7 different people trying to keep up with who is buying what, who wants to split the gift, how much money, who did what, this other they keep adding s**t. It is f**king ridiculous and out of hand. I have never experienced something like this in my entire life. We're on year 3, and why I'm b***hing about it right now, don't know, but I really need to get this out. And just it it is annoying the piss out of me. 187 messages that I woke up to this morning. 187 amongst these 7 family group texts for mom, brother 1, brother 2, uncle, grandma. It's it's a I f**king had it. I mean, that is I've I've already had it just from listening to that, and I know that that is happening all across this country. Christmas is an inherently narcissistic holiday. Much like the brides, it becomes this big thing. Let me give you an example. The girl that used to work for me, she tells me the other day, and this is a 30 something, early 30 something, that her in laws sent her their wish list of what they want their gifts to be. Like, you ask for kids, please send I ask my kids, please send me what you want for Christmas. Send me your Christmas list. I would never, ever you could not torture it out of me to send a daughter in law a here's what I want for Christmas, would I would be like, I have everything I need. Right. Do not worry about getting me one thing. And then all of that group texting, all they would see on my end is Jennifer has left the has left the text. And I advise Cody, as soon as you're married, I think this is something that Cody needs to manage. I just because there are 2 people in the marriage doesn't mean there always has to be 2 participants. You don't have to participate in this, Cody. You can say it's your family. Right. These are your problems. I'm not participating in this because it's going to lead to a divorce and potentially to a homicide. And because I care about fighting crime, because I'm a big crime fighter, darling, I must not engage in this Christmas list texting f**kery because it is ape s**t bananas. There's just no excuse for parents sending children their Christmas gifts, in my opinion. I mean, I just that just doesn't why would you do that? I just I think it's insane. And this is in this situation, in in this person's situation, it is not even it is a stepmother-in-law Right now. Sending a Christmas gift list for 2 people well over the age of 50, and I just think that is so tacky. I think it is as tacky as all get out, and I think the biggest gift, adults that are established, that are over the magic of Christmas for themselves personally can engage in, don't worry about me. Get me if you must bring something, get me a small little something. Do not spend any money on me. This is more about me getting something for you all. And that's my parents are the same. We do not each year, we've gotten less and less. Lately, we've done, like, you pick a family member's name. Now we have just said, no. Only buy for children and children only. Adults don't buy adults gifts any longer. Because here's the thing, oftentimes you get a gift, that somebody thinks is neat. It's it's what I like to call a projection gift. Mhmm. Like, sometimes you might see a robe and you think, oh, I personally would like this robe. I think this robe is great. And you project how you feel about it onto the receiver. And then there's a big, oh, don't you love it? And the, you know, rubbing all over the robe. Here's the thing. I finally had to tell Josh and the boys, I don't know, a few years ago, quit buying me robes. I'm so tired of receiving robes. I don't if I want a robe, I'm gonna go pick out my very own, and and I found myself wearing certain robes to please them so they could see me around the house in it, and I didn't like any of them. So about a year ago, I loaded them all up and donated them, and I bought the robe that I wanted. And I just sometimes gift receiving, it's nice, but sometimes people are projecting what they want on the gift. Yeah. I've been known to do that before, and here's the deal. I do not want to give something to somebody that they hate and feel like they have to say, oh, I love it. I love it. I love it. Because that's awkward. When you get a gift, I mean, there's nothing more awkward to get a gift and you hate it, but you have to act like you like it. So I just think no gifting. Here's where my hypocrisy comes in. K. Recently, I would say probably the last 3 years, I have started to purchase things for Josh that I want for myself. Right. So considering we live, you know, in the house together, this item lives in the house together. I recently bought him a suitcase, and I really wanted the suitcase for myself. And we travel a lot for work, and I have just used the suitcase. So what what this suitcase did is it it was this is what I call the gift that is 2 birds, 1 step. He had something under the tree that he unwrapped. I got the suitcase that I wanted. Yeah. No. I think that's a great idea. I remember when my kids were little and you got professional pictures taken all the time. I would not give anybody, like my parents or my grandmother, the option of picking out the pictures they wanted. I picked out the pictures they were gonna have because I knew at some point they would become mine. So my grandmother's pictures, I've repossessed those. My dad's pictures, I've repossessed those, and I I have to pat myself on the back. It was a brilliant plan. So they never got to look at the proofs. This reminds me of the best Christmas card I ever received. Oh, gosh. It was great. I wish I God, I wish have it? No, I don't have it. It's probably I'm not a keepsake No, I'm not a keepsake person. But I've I've shared this before, but it's worth a reshare. So pumps in the early days, hopeful days of rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic, that was her marriage, does a Hail Mary trip to Costa Rica with her husband and the kids. And they're lying in this gigantic oversized hammock and some rainforest somewhere. Alright. And the kids are toddlers. I'm talking like 1, maybe like 2, 4, and 6 and her husband. And her husband's in his husband, and her husband's in his swim trunks, and pumps was already reaping the benefits of what we referred to as the pre divorce diet, where you can't eat your stress all the time. So she's, you know, just tiny, like size 2 tiny. And he is having the reverse effect where he's eating his emotions. So he was larger than normal and no shirt just for the no shirt. So they're sprawled out on this hammock and the ex husband looks like a g*****n beached whale and pumps is like curled up to him like on her side and it looks like the scale wise of the photograph. It looks like he's like 30 inches wide and it looks like you and then you have these 3 miniature humans also in the hammock around you. You look like you're maybe 4 inches wide scale wise supermodel look, I looked fabulous. You looked so fabulous. I opened it up. I am howling with laughter. I am dying laughing and I call her up immediately and I go, well, either you thought you looked really cute or you thought Kirk looked really bad and it was kind of a f**k you thing or both. And you're like, oh, it's both. It's both. I just advertised it, printed it, postcarded it, probably sent more Christmas cards that year than I'd ever sent before. Yeah. Or give me a 100 extra. Oh, you looked great. Yeah. No. You look some do you think somebody has that? You've gotta have a friend somewhere that saved that rainforest hammock. That. It was on a catamaran. Was it a catamaran? It was a catamaran. You don't have that. Yeah. Cause the person was up top. That's why it was such a, they were up top on the, like, back. So, I mean, it was just, it was focused on his gut. It felt like His message It was overflowed. It was it was it was homicide via Christmas card delivery if I have ever seen it. Yeah. I don't I can't you know, my mom might have that. I'll check. I need for you to look into it. Story neither though. She's a thrower away. Pump, so many of our listeners are curious about your weight loss journey. Can you share with us how you did it? I did it with the help of Roe and GLP ones. Roe is so convenient, has access, and you can get everything you need delivered right to your house. Roe can help you understand if GLP ones are right for you and your goals, but that's just the beginning. 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If you ever see me put antlers or eyelashes on my car, know that that is a cry for help, and I need to be committed. Full stop. I've had it. Pounce it. Okay. Here's the thing. I completely agree with this. I don't like flags on cars. I don't like noses on cars, ears on cars, eyelashes on cars, any of those types of things. Additionally, I don't like cups or backpacks for cups and purses for cups and all of those things. They all live in the exact same space. However, the other day, I saw this woman elderly, and she was pretty cute. Like, she was this just like you see her and you just think this is a happy old lady. Like, she was just happy, and she was kind of like smiling in her car and she pulled up next to me and she had on like the little Rudolph nose in the ears. And I immediately thought, who's this b***h? She gets out, she's smiling. We go in and she's just, you can tell she has a pep in her step and I just thought, Jesus Christ, I am an awful, awful person. Yeah. I'm kinda I'm a 100% with Elizabeth, though. I just if it doesn't have a heartbeat, you can't dress it up. It's dumb. It's stupid, which reminds me I saw a bumper sticker of a pair of thongs on somebody's car. I'm like, like, flip flop thongs. She's like, that's the best she got? Anyway, that's not the point. Just enough. But you know what I've had it with? Right. When I was leaving your house out in the suburbs yesterday, when I saw that, the Christmas light advertisement in your yard, So, you know, it gets kind of Trumpy out there. So there's all these like Ford F150s. And as I'm leaving, they're on the streets between where I go from my house to your house. And one bumper sticker has, like, American flag on it, and it says, patriots stand up. And I just thought, who is this f**king blowhard? Who is this schmohawk? What a pussy. I just I can't stand it. And then I went further, and and there's another truck, and there's like a, you know, like a, AR 15. And it said, you want it? Come get it. Yeah. I'm so sick of these machismo bulls**t Patriot gun Fo Patriot. Bumper stickers where they, you know, it's like this, let's all get juiced up together because what it, what it tells me, what I receive when I see that is I don't think testosterone, I think low T, I think the opposite of whatever the images that they want to project. I mean it's kind of like when I hear you talk about I'm never going to date a prisoner. I'm never going to date an inmate. I 100% know that your soulmate is behind bars right now as we see right now. I know that that is the case. Just like I knew that you would like that French bulldog. And I know with these men, I know that we've got a low t situation or a bicurious situation. I'll tell you what I know we have, and it goes without question. I see that s**t. I'm like, your penis is an inch and a half. It has no girth. You've never given a woman an orgasm. You f**king suck in bed, so you're parading around with your stand up and your guns so that nobody thinks your dick is too little. Let me ask you this. That hot dog that you tried to purchase the other day Yeah. That you were denied. Yeah. Do you think the person who had the truck that says patriots stand up. Do you think that his penis is smaller or larger than the hot dog that you tried to purchase? I 100% think smaller than the teeny little Coney weeny that I couldn't purchase because I didn't have cash. I think we're talking because you're just a lonely old podcaster. I think we're talking to Nevin. I mean, I think we've got a A micro I think we've got a micro pne. Here's what I think. I think there's 2 options. I think you've got a micro pne situation. Right. I think you've got a or a low t situation. Or both. Yeah. Both of those. But I also think this is something that nobody really talks about and I think this could be a lot of it. I think these men that have to do all this machismo and because there's all of this Trump photoshopped kind of homoerotic where it makes Trump look like he has abs and pectoral muscles and all this stuff. I think a lot of these men watch a lot of porn, and I think they get excited when they see the men. And I'm not saying they're gay. I'm saying they're bi curious. I'm saying that the man's role in it excited the guy, like maybe as he's beaten off when he's watching porn, the man did something and that was the money shot. That's what triggered it. And so there's this desire because this is an internal secret that the only they know that they're little, you know, there's a little by curious in them. There's a little bit of by curiosity in them. And I think that all of this machismo is just to mask that. And I think this by curious thing is a lot more ubiquitous, with these types of men than earlier stated. And I know for sure what will end up happening. We make these statements, and then the scientists catch up with I've had it podcast. Right. Like they have with the other stuff. But at some point, we'll be sitting here saying, I knew that those guys were bisexual. Right. I knew that in 20 24 at the Republican National Convention. That's what I knew it for the first time. Yep. But here's the deal. Anytime and I might be a product of this. Talking about never getting or going on a date or getting married to a prison inmate. It's the same way with these politicians that stand up there. Anti gay. Anti gay. Anti gay. I mean, is it a 100 times out of 90? They're having all kinds of gay sexual encounters. So I just, I don't want to hear it. Let me ask you this before we wrap. When you get prison married, how many bridesmaids will you have? And can I be the maid of honor? And then will you have all 3 of our dogs participate in that wedding with the inmate? I was just the minute you said, can I be a bridesmaid? I thought, well, obviously, Ollie would give me away. I mean, that's Oliver Glissert, your dog that you named after, hot dog. Yes. He's immediately giving me away. You can be the maid of honor. Matron. Matron of honor. Uh-huh. But, you know, I just think I'll leave it at that. Really? Small. Just small. I've done the big, and it was a disaster. I'm gonna go small this time, marry a prison inmate, and what can get so many things could go right. So many things could go right. Here's the thing with him incarcerated, that gives you your best chance of success. In my opinion. 100%. In my opinion, that gives that catapults the relationship to a place that you never gave your first marriage the ability to succeed in. Right. No. I mean, seriously, I mean, that is the kind of relationship that I could probably f**king shine in. I don't have to share my stuff. You would crush it. I would crush that s**t. Mhmm. Maybe I should get back on those websites. I mean, I I, am I'm just saying, I've never heard somebody talk so much about inmate marriage as I have you. I'm into it. And I just want it for the record. It's not jail. It's prison. Just wanna make that distinction. Oh, so wait. But okay. Just for just for the permanent record. We haven't talked about the permanent record in quite some time. Are you never marrying somebody that's in prison? Prison. Okay. But jail's okay? Well, no. I didn't even think about jail because the people I'm referring to, it's all prison. It's not jail. Okay. But for the permanent record I'm gonna go ahead and lump it in. Prison or jail? Let's just lump it in. Okay. Prison, jail All of the above. Mental institution. Well, if I'm in the mental institution, I can't rule that out. And there's just you never know when you're gonna get a call from the mental institution. So I don't wanna rule that one out entirely. All right. All right. I think that's just all that we can do for today. Wouldn't you agree? Katerina? I agree. Alright. Do you, what don't you for sure think Pumps is marrying an inmate? Yeah. Can I I actually took notes on an episode of the bullet points that she wants in a partner? Okay. And I would just love to read it to you and see who it sounds like. Okay. Number 1, sex was on your terms. You didn't have to do it all the time. Right. 2, you wanna keep your nighttime routine. Right. 3, you wanna live alone. 4, they can't call you all the time. And the last one has a lot of red flags. Who does that sound like? It's perfect. Kyle, it it it this is exactly why you keep saying you're not going to do it because deep down, you know, it's your destiny. It's it's the perfect match for me. It is the absolute best case scenario in a partner for me. A prisoner. A prisoner. Never getting out. That's key. Clutch. Alright. Thank you, guys. Pumps tell them. We will see you next Tuesday Thursday. I'll tell you what I've had it with. The terrorists. I've had it with them. 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